merlion45 51F
549 posts
9/11/2006 11:42 am

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Sex is meant to be:

something you decide to do whn you're ready to
something that makes you both feel good
something you can interrupt or stop at any time
safe (because you're both prepared with condoms to portect you from sexually transmitted infections and unwanted pregnancy)

Sex isn't meant to be:

the only way to prove that you love someone
something you feel pressured or forced into
something you do because 'everyone else is doing it'
something that makes you feel used.
Remember, if you've been kissing or touching but don't want to go any further, that's ok. Kissing is not a contract.

Trust and communication
The most important thing in a sexual relationship is that you trust the other person and you feel like you can communicate with them.

If you are considering a sexual relationship, or if you are in a sexual relationship, ask yourself:

How much do I trust this person to respect what I do and don't want to do?
How comfortable would I feel talking with them about safe sex and contraception?
How comfortable would I feel saying no to them?
Someone who loves you should respect your right to decide if and when to have sex.

If you don't feel ready to have sex, you could say "I really like you but I don't feel ready to have sex yet".

rm_edwest2006 58M
195 posts
9/11/2006 7:50 pm

yes yes and yes and no no no its all depend on what you want in the end and it lies with the person who wants it or not and like what was written how much you trust that person

goodtry 56M
918 posts
9/11/2006 8:05 pm

Hmmmm, love and sex is two different things. In general most people will mix them up. Well again sex is something that everyone need, so if you trust your partner and comfortable with him and is ready then you will enjoy it.

merlion45 51F

9/11/2006 8:23 pm

It's funny,isn't it??

How we can haave sex without Love the person ?

We are human we have feeling........we can be lying about our feeling to someone we love or like it.

merlion45 51F

9/11/2006 8:25 pm

I think the better Sex we have if we love the person than only need it and for killing the loneliness or as a way to fulfill our needs about Sex it self.

goodtry 56M
918 posts
9/11/2006 9:04 pm

Infact it is true. Even for as good friend, there is still some love bonding in between be sex or no sex.

rm_edwest2006 58M
195 posts
9/12/2006 12:04 am

it's like how you love your sister or brother that kind of bonding even i have two lovely "sister" which i keep them company whenever they feel bore and there is no sex in between as we respect each other and there is no feeling of wanting to have sex.

goodtry 56M
918 posts
9/12/2006 1:39 am

Certainly, most people which I don't understand why prefer to bind Love and Sex together. Apparently Great Good Sex requires Love but Love itself do not actually requires Sex to be Great.

However each time when the word Love surfaces everyone will think hehehee, must be SEX again.

rm_edwest2006 58M
195 posts
9/12/2006 4:27 am

i think those who say the word LOVE does not know the real meaning of it and to ask them to explain they would say oh it i like him or her alot and to prove it must do it, man if this it the what is love all about......

merlion45 51F

9/12/2006 9:38 am

wow.........twos of u really good to add spicy in my Blog.

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