Very annoyed...  

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2/11/2006 2:55 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Very annoyed...

I had a very nasty email exchange with a copy cat member of this service who when they requested a pic of me, they sent another pic back with the girl in the same exact position, in the same area, in the same everything. That really upset me because I had that professionally arranged. And then they asked for a face pic without offering one of themselves first. I live in a very small town and I am not going to release that personal of information without getting the same in return. Hello! Common sense!

This brazen couple never had a chance with me. And if they were able to *read* my profile they would have figured that out. I don't deal with smokers and I prefer people to have some education. My reply to their comment to my blog should have been their first clue to not further initiate communication. But yet they kept emailing and since my male half gets up earlier than I do, he answered. I don't tell him about every person I have no interest in online. I only mention the ones that are likely candidates.

It took a while before I caught a new email from this person and I responded not appreciating the copy-cat picture. Apparently the girl finally decided to get up the guts to email me and apologized to Paul because I ticked her off twice. Well if I piss you off once and you keep coming back what does that say about you? That you like bothering people who have no interest in you? Do you like wasting your time and mine? I'm trying to protect MY family (which includes much more than Paul) and MY safety and if you have a problem with that, I don't need you at all as a friend, as a lover, or as a coworker. My life and career is too valuable.

I play nice when I might actually like you. Hence why Paul thinks I am very sweet and a few other people think I am the devil incarnate. Right now, I am Devil Mel until I calm down. Insulting me or treating me like the lesser member of the couple is a good way to get you blocked.

I might let Paul make a lot of decisions and god knows I listen to him a lot in the bedroom, but I am an intelligent person who also has the right to approve/disapprove of who I spend my time with.

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