Anger and violence in the bedroom  

marykaysaysok 49F
12 posts
2/2/2006 3:53 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Anger and violence in the bedroom

On a new version of the same issue. Met a guy one time, we had sex a few times that night and the sex was good. However he was very into calling me his slut and whore, being dominating in a degrading way, and saying my pussy was only his. I'm all for bdsm but think it should be talked about ahead of time rather than just sprung on you the first time you're together. End result was I was really in doubt about what he wanted and really felt like he was angry at or hated women because of how he talked to me. Didn't hear from him for 3 weeks and of course I didn't wait around for him to call. I met and had sex with other guys that were much nicer to me. Long story short, he contacted me and I went and saw him last night. Only to hear all night long how I was a slut and to have him keep asking me if the other guy's dick was better and why I let anyone else fuck me, etc. Then he decided my "punishment" was for him to fuck me up the ass. And now I'm supposed to ask his permission before I see anyone else which is stupid. I asked him if he was this mean to other women he met and he said he was mean to them but that he was meaner to me. Like it's supposed to be a compliment or something. What the fuck? I am thinking perhaps I am asking for trouble to even get involved with this guy again, I think there's too much violence and anger involved that could lead to me getting hurt. Not to mention, I don't deserve to be treated like shit by anyone.

rm_philthy369 43M

2/2/2006 7:46 pm

How about you and I get together- you can call him while I'm fucking you; keep him on the phone, all the while telling him how much better I fuck "his" pussy than he does??

rm_imajeepman69 49M

2/5/2006 6:16 pm

hello girl and no you dont need his b/s unless you want tobe stuck with a none swinging dick that cant handle a lady like you full time or part time and last time i looked at the heading on this web sight it says sex and swingers web sight.

MaulsVestaUlnar 52M

2/7/2006 1:08 pm

Dang.... sounds like quite the idiot!!!! What surprises me, is that you GAVE HIM A SECOND CHANCE???? Sounded to me like it was crap the first time too.... Assholes like that need to get a clue....

To me... sex is supposed to be fun and pleasurable for BOTH people.... not just a game for one.

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