pondering.............  

marriednhor002 50M/42F
250 posts
7/12/2006 11:33 am

Last Read:
8/25/2006 8:24 pm

pondering.............

my husband and I are strong believers in living for the moment......spontanaeity in all it's glory can be a truly refreshing ,exhilerating experience. whether it's something as small as going to the beach for a drive and a long walk,or going out with our friends on a moment's notice.
i recall many happy times,sitting in the passenger seat of the car on one of our sunday excursions,not really going anywhere in particular,just seeing places we haven't seen before.....(the road less travelled so to speak)
i love those moments when you can just look out and see nature going by,no worries about finances,or stress from work,just happy to be alive,together and in love.(i always remark with a far away smile on my face that i'm having "a moment"and he just smiles with atwinkle in his eye,takes my hand and replys "me too...")

do any of you take time to stop and smell the roses?do you run your fingers over paintings to see the way they feel,take aimless drives for no reason....
interested to know.....what takes you to that happy place in your minds?


akron42   
2375 posts
7/12/2006 11:51 am

Red Bull. Seriously. It gives me a little rush of adrenaline and a burst of happiness to start my day. Strange what works for different people.


nikki_im4u 54F

7/12/2006 5:52 pm

I just read your post in the advice-lines. I think I may understand
what your feelings are about this site. I have been a member for a few
years. I have met a lot of people, but most of them are just platonic
friends. I have met a handful for sexual playmates. 3 couples and 3 single women. I still am very very close to 2 of the couples and 1 of the single women. I have turned my profile off no less than 4 times in
more than 3 years. But I always seem to come back. I finally deleted my
profile about 4 months ago, because I figured of all the friends i have met and the lifelong playmates I have isn't that enough. At the time it seemed that "yes" it was enough. But I am single and prefer it that way. And for some reason I missed reading, browsing, chatting, voting, blogging so here I am. I'M BACK.... I'm not sure if its an addiction, but I do love what this site has to offer even without a sexual overtone or what it is intended to be for.

I know my situation may be different than yours. But I do understand.

Nikki

Nikki


marriednhor002 50M/42F

7/13/2006 7:21 am

thanx nikki, i sincerely appreciate your honesty and your input!
i think i'm gonna leave our profile up for now regardless of how many people we meet,i can always say "no thanks"to anyone if we feel we're not interested........


marriednhor002 50M/42F

7/13/2006 7:23 am

thank u chubbylover53.....will be sure to visit*wink*


marriednhor002 50M/42F

7/13/2006 7:25 am

akron42: RED BULL ROCKS!!!!!!(although lack of energy isn't really a prob in my house*giggle*)
thanx 4 the post!


SirMounts 103M

8/25/2006 7:39 pm

marriednhor...
Why yes, I do often stop and smell the roses. And a great place to do that is... right here. *smiling warmly*


marriednhor002 50M/42F

8/25/2006 8:24 pm

    Quoting SirMounts:
    marriednhor...
    Why yes, I do often stop and smell the roses. And a great place to do that is... right here. *smiling warmly*
a rose by any other name would smell as sweet....as sweet as my thoughts for you sirmounts
you are the very picture of gentleman aren't you?!
always wonderful to hear from you.....
*wondering why I'm always giddy to hear from him...*
*warm hugs*


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