rm_marc44054 64M
1061 posts
9/6/2005 6:18 am

We've all been hurt sometime. Some of us many times. How do you handle those situations and how do they affect future realtionships? Do you withdraw from expressing your hopes and dreams and likes and dislikes. Do you remain opened to letting others into your life? Do you say, I've been hurt before and I am not going to let it happen again?

What if you stay somewhat withdrawn. Isn't it possible you could miss that someone you may make a difference in your life?

Is love worth the risk or not?

MsLoveRose 34F  
2432 posts
9/6/2005 3:04 pm

well each experience is just that...a learning tool to help you through the next day...today you learn to walk..tomorrow its easier to run!

generally speaking i do hold all the experiences dear to me...what i have learned...or would have liked to learn...if its much painful...sometimes i have to withdraw...and take a step back to evaluate why the pain is there....or why the attempt to be content failed...but i dont completely shut down...and close my heart off!!!

LOVE isnt a risk! how can you ever know what it is truly like to be happy if you have never been sad...to appreciate the good...

live more, laugh often, love much

rm_marc44054 64M
936 posts
9/7/2005 6:19 am

You must be a mind reader. That is exactly how I feel. I know someone who is having a difficult time moving forward from a bad experience. She definetly doesn't want to talk about it. But everything she says is a reflection of that experience.
Thanks again beautiful. You are wise beyond your years.

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