How long should sex last?  

malissa969 40F
81 posts
5/19/2006 7:21 am

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How long should sex last?

After lots of fun and foreplay, how long should the "main event" last?

I have been with a few "three-pump-chumps" and also with a guy who can go indefinately.

Do you like a guy with lots of stamina? Or one who gets the job done right in a reasonable amount of time?

For you guys, do you really like to ride for hours, or prefer to finish the job and move on?
1-5 minutes is plenty
6-15 min.
16-30 min.
at LEAST 30 minutes!
1-2 hours
all night baby

1973GAL 45F

5/19/2006 8:16 am

30 mins minimum for me unless there is a time restraint...of course i love the longer sessions too or the continual ones!

Sweetpickles69 49F

5/19/2006 8:18 am

I love the all nighters, but they're few & far between!!!


rm_chowbox2005 44M

5/19/2006 8:20 am

Hey Malissa! How have you been? I haven't seen you around in a while. I hope that all is well? You're looking beautiful as ever! Come by and say "Hi" sometime. chowbox2004 at yh, I'm on most of the day.

I prefer that we both cum once during foreplay. It helps get the anxiety out of the way when playing with someone new, kind of settles you in for the "main course". With the initial sexual tension released, it's easier to focus energies on each other. Once we actually begin fucking each other, it really depends on how into each other we both are that would determine how long we go. If I had to pick a number, I guess that I would say a minimum of 30 minutes, but 45 to an hour is probably more acurate!

buddhamike 107M
7006 posts
5/19/2006 10:53 am

Anything under half an hour is a quickie, why bother. It depends a lot on how you go about it. At least a half hour of continuous penetration at some point is nice. With more oral, a little less penetration works. Then again if you are going to really get into it an hour and a half to two hours with some time for recovery here and there is nice. Depends some on how much foreplay there is, too. I guess I'm saying that there isn't a single answer to this question.

rm_domfree477 62M
42 posts
5/20/2006 7:44 am

Maybe I misunderstood the question. Are you asking about the entire act or after foreplay? I ask this because foreplay is the schnitz. It goes on for hours sometimes days before/leading up to, and most definitely until ready for rounds 2,3,4, and more!

Then, there are just those times when you both want it bad, hard, and quick. As long as you both get all the way there it's all good until the schedule allows getting all the way there over and over until the rooster crows.

AngeLtheCrazY 42M

5/20/2006 9:53 am

i cant ve an orgasm if sewithout oral) is shorter than 30min.

6titus62 40M
3 posts
5/20/2006 11:20 am

i think after 30 minutes of penetration, i said penetration it is going to be too much!!

PussyKissesQueen 49M/45F

5/21/2006 6:37 pm

Depends on whether you are speaking of intercourse or foreplay or both all together. We have been together five years and foreplay+sex has never lasted less than 2 hours. Of course, my man is so fucking good in bed i tease him that all women should get to fuck him at least once because it has to be a sin to have all that to myself.

rm_quik876 41M
4 posts
5/21/2006 9:24 pm

for me it depends on the situation your in, if your lookin' to make a night of it together then yeah 2hrs to all night is good you just have to keep yourself in control.

but if you just wanna quickie as a prelude to later (ie your leavin' for work, or running errands, ducking out at a party, etc.). could last 15-30 again it's in controling yourself or just letting go. just to give 'em something to think about later.

boogieman251980 37M
10 posts
5/21/2006 10:18 pm

I love to go at it and pound away for atleast an hour, but ya cant just stay in one position. Foreplay and lots of it is a must!!!!!

sexynick992005 48M
24 posts
5/22/2006 11:39 am

come on, guys!.. you say you can give a "hard time" for about one hour and than you are ready for more?! either i'm to soft or you are abusing on Viagra!
like someone said before: foreplay can last "forever", from a couple of minutes to a coupple of days, and for me this is when most of the energy is spent. the "intercourse" may be as quick as some minutes, when one of both come...
altough there are sometimes when i feel really horny and lucky (and she is more lucky, i guess) when i can continuously play and pump and fuck without loosing hardeness, and we get to come one or more times more after that, but i count this as another one, shouldn't i?
this means: i can start over again and again for a couple of hours, and i really love when i find someone who's up to play for more than one hour, but the "main event" as you call it, is usually a couple of minutes long.

fmisvme 47M/37F

5/22/2006 2:31 pm

It's kind of a trick question, we love to keep going, we climax and then continue. We know each other so well and Miss C is multi-orgasmic so we don't need much more than 30 minutes, but then we start over!!!
Glad you're finally back!

Rock Chalk Jayhawk!

xxxtallorderxxx 47M

5/22/2006 11:53 pm

there's no formula for the length of time in every situation, each time is different, each time the needs are met either quicker or slower or about the same.

rm_freak198 48M
5 posts
5/24/2006 12:22 pm

1-2 hours is definately a good choice but all night long is even better, it really helps me when the woman i'm with is really into it and likes to help me out during the recharge the batteries moments

rm_heartbreakis 53M/32F
3 posts
5/26/2006 6:14 pm

We think sex should last all your life.

rm_Braden_Quinn 39M
6 posts
5/30/2006 12:52 pm

"31 Minutes to 1 Hour" but I think everybody has had those all nighters.

o1goodjoe 41M
6 posts
6/2/2006 12:26 am

Ihave a hard time finding a woman where i live that can take a good long 4 - 8 hour fuckfest. im talking all of that penetration time. i only have seven inches but my wife cant always take it all and she is wore out in 1 or 2 hours. sometimes i am still hard for an hour afterwards.I have been called the energizer bunny. lol.

sweetgirl772005 39F

6/5/2006 11:37 am

Guess the time frame really isn't an issue, as long as long as the woman has an orgasm. Foreplay on the other hand, definatly 30 min ++. You just can't have enough!

beerguywild1 41M

7/4/2006 10:41 am

well, i think it all depends on the situation, sometimes 5-10 mins is enough other times a couple hours isn't enough. It all depends on the people the timimg, after a hard days work sometimes you just want to get done and over with. On the other hand when both partners have a clear mind and are well "rested" it can go on for a couple hours no problem

Tit744 42M/43F
1 post
7/17/2006 6:19 am

To me it depends on the individual and there is no magical time. As long as both parties are satisfied, time should no be an issue.

spur1966 51M
9 posts
8/18/2006 5:24 pm

I agree with sweetgirl you need to preheat the oven before you throw the meat to it

flirtandtease 41F
9 posts
9/26/2006 6:28 pm

All-nighters are the ones yuo remember years later...

rm_sueandtwo 57F

11/5/2006 6:07 am

it should ast as long as it needs to last. guys, we'll tell you when to stop so keep pumping.

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