Is Cheating Really Wrong  

luvlee_j1 48F
163 posts
8/1/2006 2:51 pm

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8/9/2006 8:51 pm

Is Cheating Really Wrong

If a person has an affair, and their spouse or partner does not know and never finds out, is it really wrong? I mean no one gets hurt, so what is the big deal. My philosophy on that is, what they don't know can't hurt them. But i'm sure there are many who would dissagree. Lets see what you all think.


rappahannock_man 63M
1102 posts
8/1/2006 3:05 pm

Ask this first: if you have an affair will it hurt you?! If the answer is yes, you don't have to wonder about its hurting your spouse, 'cause it will.


luvlee_j1 48F

8/1/2006 3:10 pm

....very interesting


XJackinyourBoxX 44M

8/1/2006 3:14 pm

If you think that having an affair with someone will never affect your spouse or partner you're wrong. You won't forget what happened and in one way or another it will change how you act around your spouse/partner. Even if it's the lie you told to cover up where you were it has still affected things.

If the person isn't happy in the marriage/relationship try to correct the problem through communication, or leave.


luvlee_j1 48F

8/1/2006 3:22 pm

thankx jack...luv the pic!


freaky788 56F

8/1/2006 4:53 pm

You have to ask that one question, why are you doing it in the first place. If it is a sex thing then i feel what the hell. I love my spouse, but i like sex. As long as it is not in your face and you still handle your business at home then the hell with what other people think. You are the one who have to answer to any questions.


luvlee_j1 48F

8/2/2006 1:36 pm

    Quoting freaky788:
    You have to ask that one question, why are you doing it in the first place. If it is a sex thing then i feel what the hell. I love my spouse, but i like sex. As long as it is not in your face and you still handle your business at home then the hell with what other people think. You are the one who have to answer to any questions.
so true...so true...this question came up, while talking with a gf of mine, my hubby allows me to play outside our marriage, but of course no one is allowed to know this, and she is trying to decide what to do about her situation....i will pass all these thoughts on....thanks guys!


rm_pdiddyva 48M
56 posts
8/4/2006 3:51 am

    Quoting freaky788:
    You have to ask that one question, why are you doing it in the first place. If it is a sex thing then i feel what the hell. I love my spouse, but i like sex. As long as it is not in your face and you still handle your business at home then the hell with what other people think. You are the one who have to answer to any questions.
I agree with freaky, as you already know


RottenApple70 48M

8/8/2006 4:21 pm

    Quoting luvlee_j1:
    so true...so true...this question came up, while talking with a gf of mine, my hubby allows me to play outside our marriage, but of course no one is allowed to know this, and she is trying to decide what to do about her situation....i will pass all these thoughts on....thanks guys!
I'd like to meet you and your girlfriend together, maybe we can help to open her eyes amd her blouse. Who says three's a crowd...?


luvlee_j1 48F

8/8/2006 9:43 pm

you are sooo bad....


RottenApple70 48M

8/9/2006 3:57 am

And Sooooooo good in bed...


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