Does Size Really Matter?  

luvlee_j1 47F
163 posts
7/17/2006 9:48 am

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8/8/2006 10:01 pm

Does Size Really Matter?


The other day a friend of mine told me i have a beautiful face, but could stand to lose a few pounds. Now this is a close friend...so i didn't get offended right away.
However, after thinking about the comment...i got a little pissed off! Who is she to tell me i'm not completely beautiful, because i have a little extra padding?
I was 130pds, most of my life, then the weight started coming on, kids, life, a lot of factors came into play. But my husband of 17 years has never complained, and i still get as much attention from men, as i did back then.
So guys....does size truly matter, when you look at a womens face..and think she is beautiful?
Maybe it never bothered me before, because i'm a confident woman, and carry myself very well. I'm the same person at 130pds...or 200pds (current weight), and really don't give a damn what people think of me. After all....BIG GIRLS NEED LOVE TOO!


rm_pdiddyva 48M
56 posts
7/18/2006 4:29 am

Size only matters when it starts interfering and complicating your life and health. Honestly when I look a a woman, the first thing I see is the body, can't avoid it bcuz we see people from a distance...next is the face and personality, once I talk to her if we don't click, y waste time. And a factor to consider, for any body type is...grooming. Think about your favorite celebrity that you would love to meet and bed, you meet them and their breath stank, fingernails all yellow, hair all greasy and nasty....eewwww


luvlee_j1 47F

7/18/2006 8:14 am

You are right pdiddy...when health becomes an issue it's time to change things. And Oh...my God..is grooming important! and yes this is for every body type. there is nothing worse than meeting a sexy, very interestig person, and their breath stinks! But should people make comments like the one made to me? I've heard other people say things like that to other big girls. I think it is rude.


rm_pdiddyva 48M
56 posts
7/19/2006 4:16 am

It is a close friend, so they are giving you their honest opinion, an opinion you didn't ask for so they are about to cross the line. If it was someone you didnt know, then it would definitely be rude and uncalled for.


ellis007 46M

7/19/2006 9:59 pm

Baby, you do you. I love a woman with some size to her. A "skinny" woman is fun to "get your rocks off" but, I wannna know I am working. A woman with some size will make you work.


luvlee_j1 47F

7/20/2006 7:00 am

    Quoting ellis007:
    Baby, you do you. I love a woman with some size to her. A "skinny" woman is fun to "get your rocks off" but, I wannna know I am working. A woman with some size will make you work.
t/y...ellis....i will continue to do me...and make them work


ellis007 46M

7/20/2006 10:28 pm

you seem pretty cool. Wanna chat? I am shugabear007. Drop me a line and let's kick it. I am on during the day and after 11:30 at night. Looking forward.


noordinarychic2 49F
242 posts
8/1/2006 9:04 pm

I couldn't agree more!! i'm a size 14..and to me...that's skinny!! lol....and hey us bigger girls -- we know how to use what we have!! love your blog!! noc2


RottenApple70 48M

8/8/2006 10:49 am

Big girls are hot in bed. They try harder than most and they can do things that skinny women can't do. Take it from a guy who knows, and who wants to know more...


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