Friends with benefits  

luv2tri3 51M/49F
25 posts
4/22/2006 10:05 pm

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Friends with benefits

Why does it seem like everyone is so willing to want to met right away for sex. But when we start talking about setting up a time & place they will have to get back to us? We want to meet others, individuals or couples for dinner/drinks to make sure everyone is comfortable first then would like to have some fun after that.

penguinluvr 59M
1087 posts
4/22/2006 11:24 pm

That's because about 90% of the people on this site are fakes. Not fakes as in aliens from another planet (although sometimes I wonder) but fakes as in only here to talk, no action.

I'm real, but you guys are a little out of my territory. My range for a one day encounter is about 25 miles or wherever I can get to on DART, since I'm car-free as a matter of lifestyle. I don't know where you guys are, but I know where you aren't! And you aren't in the DFW area or within 25 miles of Garland TX, because you didn't show up in my search of members in this area.

Good luck, and until you get lucky have fun but don't get caught, because you know if it's fun someone doesn't want you doing it.


hotandhorny107 60F

4/22/2006 11:28 pm

I have often wondered the same things. It is rather crude to just presume you are going to hop directly into bed and then walk away. I have found some that are looking for friends with benefits but hey are few and far between. I like to go out, talk, share a meal and see where it goes. Makes dessert better.....

rm_coathanger1 49M
859 posts
4/22/2006 11:29 pm

You may solve the riddles of the universe before getting that answer. I'm part of a couple as well. It looks like the best bet is to go to the sex clubs or private parties.

Good luck

rm_contactwr 53M

4/22/2006 11:39 pm

I've noticed that as well.

Like the recent, 'Pussy coming to Vegas, April 30 - May 3'.

In this post, the man is requesting that couples and/or men help him meet his wife's needs.

Immediately, there is post after post responding to the request. Mostly one liners or a quick note.

And then..... nothing...

I posted on the forum, and gave detail, requested that they check my profile, and let me know either way.

No responses. No contact. No follow through.


People need to make real arrangements in their lives and schedules, to accomodate a request of another. And should make every effort to keep everyone informed.

When my wife desires to be the center of attention for an evening, I make sure the people are aware of any change, make sure of directions, accomadations, etc.

They are doing me, mostly her ;^) , a favor. We are the hosts and should treat our helpers as the guests that they are.

Simple courtisy is missing in these forums and contacts.

Anyway, just thought I would rant, hope you don't mind.

GoddessOfTheDawn 106F
11240 posts
4/23/2006 12:10 am

It seems lots just want to talk the talk and not walk the walk....

welcome to blogging and gud luck

saddletrampsk 55F

4/23/2006 1:02 am

Good luck in your search and welcome to blogland..

You are cordially invited to [post 319220]..hope you can make it..

thickjucyblkdick 55M

4/30/2006 2:47 pm

i think that meeting for drinks or dinner is fun. Im game

thickjucyblkdick 55M

4/30/2006 2:52 pm

I also feel that meeting for a casual drink is not only fun but its very important. Fucking is awesome when there is chemistry.

rm_zzapp2 51M
67 posts
5/16/2006 7:31 pm

hey girl i have a place its moms house but im temporarory staying here and theres nobody here all day and on top of all that i can surly handle that pussy im 6' 5" and im experienced in this exactly i dig a good sexual woman that just wants t o be handled

rm_curmix4u 41M/38F
5 posts
8/6/2006 2:38 pm

We have a hard time too. We like meeting ADULTS that want to be friends in an dout of bedroom. If we do get away from kids are time is very limited. If we send kids to sitters and that person shows up it makes us frustraited too..

rm_happblueeyes 63M/48F
2 posts
9/24/2006 12:12 pm

we would love to get together and meat sometime!!!


BBCnSoCal1 56M

4/19/2008 9:55 am

Im looking for friends with benefits, not a quicky or a one time hit n run.

Mr_Happy_2 50M
1 post
9/25/2011 6:23 am

I think sometimes just the thought of meeting others is enough for some folks. I am very interested in meeting a couple and will dream about what I read in your blog for months (probably years). I would love to meet U2

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