Need it know  

lusiousmelissa 48M/41F
13 posts
6/1/2006 8:06 am

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9/21/2006 7:17 pm

Need it know

Why is it that when someone wants to meet me I am all for it then like a BIG CHICKEN SHIT !!!!
I back out ! WHY!!
I always always want sex more then what my hubby is giving me! and longer then he can go too! (he blows to fast)
but when the time comes I think about if he finds out and I lose my family over sex with some one else and all I could have done was gone to my dresser and get my TOY'S (I do alot )
Help me out people what should I do I have only been with a couple people in my life and I really want to be with a women plus a black man and maybe other men
will this pass or should I just stop being a big chicken shit and DO IT !!!!



alchemistz9 58M

6/1/2006 9:24 am

Hi [lusiousmelissa],

Does it have to be a choice between having the kind of sex life you really want but losing your family if your husabnd finds out, and protecting your family life but ignoring your own needs?

Could you talk to your husband about it? Maybe he might be into a 3some or more? It's also possible he's bi-curious but hasn't felt able to take the risk of telling you.

As for being a chicken shit - if you are never afraid, you cannot know the meaning of courage. I think you are right to be afraid - these are big issues in your life and how you handle them will affect your marriage and family, your self-image and your peace of mind.

And when you're done being immobilised by fear, you'll do what you need to, and when you're doing it, you'll recognise that you had known all along which was the right choice to make, the right decision to take, and then you'll know you aren't and never have been a chicken shit.


papabearron 78M
3 posts
6/1/2006 9:27 am

I THINK I WOULD GO AHEAD AND HAVE SEX WITH SOME MALE PERSON THAT WOULD TRY AND HELP YOU OVER THE PROPBLEM THAT YOU HAVE. IF YOU DONT IT WILL COUSE YOU TO WONDER ABOUT IT AND CAUSE A LOT OF RESTLESS TIMES IN THE FURTURE. I KNOW IT DID ME. AND IM A MALE.

START OUT WITH A PERSON OF YOUR OWN RACE FIRST THEN IF IT IS WHAT YOU WANT THEN GO FOR ALL THE REST OF IT. THAT IS WHAT WORKED FOR ME. AND STILL DOES. I LIKE TO PLEASE WOMEN BY TAKING MY TIME. LET THEM TELL ME WHAT THEY WANT NOT WHAT I WANT THIS LRTS THEM GET THERE FRUSTRATIONS OUT OF THE WAY. OBOUT A 4 TO 6 HR PERIOD DOES THE TRICK. THIS COVERS EVERYTHING. FROM A TO Z TO DO WITH SEX. I'VE DONE THIS 16 TINES AND NOT HAD ONE BAD COMPLAINT. I'VE HAD THREE OR FOUR CME BACK A SECOND TIME. I COULD PROBALY GET YOUR WISH FOR A WOMAN OR A BLACK MAN TO HELP IF YOU SO DESIRE.

TAKE CARE AND HOPE TO TALK TO AGAIN.
PAPABEARRON


lusiousmelissa 48M/41F
5 posts
6/27/2006 7:14 pm

Well thanks for the reply but I think your both right I need to go and see whats out there too. as for him he was all into having a 3some but then backed out and no his not into males I know that for sure.

love to hear more all !!!!

lusiousmelissa


jerrylee101 68M/67F

9/12/2006 6:03 am

speak to your b/f husband, tell him how you feel, we are a mature cpl, I, spoke to my g/f friend about what I, always wanted a 3-some or another cpl to join us & she said yes that she would try & we been having groups & 3-somes when we can.By doing this it isn't Cheating, he is with you. If we lived closer to you we would ask you to join us, for Dinner, drinks & go from there, please reply, thank you Jerrylee101.[photomain jerrylee101]


lusiousmelissa 48M/41F
5 posts
9/21/2006 7:17 pm

hi there
were are you living ?
wanna chat some time ?


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