Go Ugly Early????  

lovemetouchme5 52F
1534 posts
7/23/2006 1:03 pm

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Go Ugly Early????

I used to go the bar a lot when I was younger. Yea, I was a real party animal! Anyway, while I was there, I would watch the men throughout the evening, go from woman to woman. Some would ask them to dance, some would buy the ladies a drink, and others would just sit around and talk to them. The men were desperately trying to find someone to “finish” out the night with. By the end of the night, it was interesting to see who ended up with whom.

So here’s my question…What type of man are/were you? WOULD YOU.....

Ladies, there are some choices for you too!
Tell me about your experience! Loveme
Find one woman and talk to her the whole night long, hoping that she will go home with you?
Go from woman to woman, hoping that at least one will say "yes"?
Find the woman sitting by herself at the end of the night and hope that she's as desperate to get laid as you are?
Spend the evening having a good time and go home by yourself?
None of the above, because you always go out to the club with your woman right beside you?
I have NEVER gone to a bar to try to pick up anyone!
The women are always trying to pick ME up!
I am a woman and have men always trying to pick me up!
I am a woman and was always the one men looked at at the end of the night.
I am a woman, and have never gone to a bar.

countryheart_71 46F
8081 posts
7/23/2006 4:24 pm

I don't go to a bar to pick anyone up. If I go by myself, it's to play pool and visit with my brother while he is working.


lovemetouchme5 replies on 7/28/2006 6:13 am:
Hey Country! First of all, I want to thank you for visiting my blog lately! It was a very nice surprise to see your comments!

I'm not into going to the bars much either, hubby and I only went out a few times during our marriage. I would usually sit and watch other people while hubby was out and about talking to all his friends. FUN TIME>>>NOT!!! All I ever wanted to do was dance.



7/23/2006 5:22 pm

Hi. Very rarely even attempted to pick up a woman in a bar. That doesn't mean that sometimes a woman friend wouldn't end up going home with me, when I was in school (college) there were a group of us who drank together and played together..sort of a non-resident commune..otherwise, went to visit with friends or to hear music..the bar scene was never an attractive place to try to hook up.
Love some of the options..especially the "desperate to get laid as you".

lovemetouchme5 replies on 7/28/2006 6:17 am:
LOL...Seems like we all have a lot of college/younger days stories! I was a "vu-a-holic" (I believe you know what I'm talking about here) for a few years in my early twenties. Although I didn't really hook up all the time...Sometimes I would hook up with one of the guys that was with the group I partied with, but usually I went home alone.

rm_Smile_My_Way 60M
1519 posts
7/23/2006 7:56 pm

"The women are always trying to pick ME up!"
This was the closes one that fits me. I wasn't any good at picking up women. I always hoped that they would ask me. Believe it or not it did happen at least once I can remember.

lovemetouchme5 replies on 7/28/2006 6:20 am:
Smile-You are such a "studmuffin", it's no wonder women were always trying to pick you up! Loveme

elysianpleasure 48M

7/23/2006 10:40 pm

I take it as it comes... some times it does... sometimes it doesn't. But the goal was never just to go home with anyone.

lovemetouchme5 replies on 7/28/2006 6:27 am:
I hear you ely! Hope you had a good time on your vacation! Loveme

bustybettyboop 51F  
59326 posts
7/24/2006 6:00 am

i like to go out and have a good time..i get hit on but i go home by myself because i want to. *smile*

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lovemetouchme5 replies on 7/28/2006 6:32 am:
Welcome Betty! Thanks for visiting my blog! Looking at your pic, I can see why you were the one that was hit on.. It's good that you were able to go home by yourself, but were you ever tempted to hook up with someone? Lovem

rm_sixy66 51M

7/24/2006 2:52 pm

Do you mean to tell me.. that I can go to a bar, meet a woman, and take her home.. for SEX?! Whoa!

lovemetouchme5 replies on 7/28/2006 6:33 am:
Sixy, You are a hoot! You make me smile with every comment you make! It's amazing what type of things you learn from reading the blogs! Talk to you soon, Loveme

rm_Smile_My_Way 60M
1519 posts
7/24/2006 8:04 pm

Hey I just notice you have posted number 600 on other
madiemoon blogs. Keep up the good work.

lovemetouchme5 replies on 7/28/2006 6:33 am:
Thanks Smile! Loveme

daighi 50M
1449 posts
7/25/2006 4:20 pm

Hi there,great post! I chose option #4 as quite often i do just that!

I love to talk,but when it comes to the end of the night,i just tend to bottle it.Especially if it's a first date,as i very rarely make a move to be sexual on a first date anyway.

After that,i guess it's 50/50,& it depends on how i'm getting on with my date.

I mostly chicken out though,but thats down to my self esteem,& confidence.

Have i said to you,i like your smile,i think it's wonderful!



"Always remember...keep smiling!"



lovemetouchme5 replies on 7/28/2006 6:36 am:
Thanks D.!!! Awww, self-esteem and confidence always plays a big part in everyone's reaction to each other. Hopefully, blogland is helping build up that confidence for you! Loveme

rm_PB825 51M

7/26/2006 3:03 pm

Don't do the bar scene anymore. In my youth, i was the guy that sat in the secluded part of the bar and waited for it to close. Both men and women make interesting choices at the end of the night. I used to wonder what they were thinking when the booze wore off.....

bustybettyboop 51F  
59326 posts
7/29/2006 9:17 am

ohh hell yea! i was tempted! girl! u shoulda seen the cowboy last week..lol..busty feels weak in the knees..mmmm..*wink*

..just join me on my blog bustybettyboop and still looking for some hot,sexy,creative contestants for my next contest...come join us! need a blog mentor or want to be one?

lovemetouchme5 replies on 7/29/2006 9:38 am:
OMG!!! I just love going to rodeos and watching all those cowboys in their tight wrangler jeans! I always sit near the bull shoots so when all the cowboys are standing on the rails, I get a front row view of their butts! Loveme

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