Doesn't your husband do that for you?  

lovemetouchme5 52F
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4/2/2006 2:06 pm

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Doesn't your husband do that for you?

I received an email from a man yesterday that asked me why I engage in cyber fun when I have a husband right here next to me. He also made a note to hubby that he was a very lucky man.

Over the past few months that I have been on this site and others, I have met many people and have asked them the same question. A lot of them have responded that their wives just don't want to have sex anymore, or that they have a just want to have some extra curricular activity with and without their spouses.

My situation is a little different. I came to this site because of my husband. He was here for reasons unknown to me, although I can probably guess. I had plenty of sex at home, so that wasn't what I was missing. I didn't really need any extra curricular activity, because like I said, I had all the sex I wanted at home. No, what I was missing was companionship. Someone I could talk to or just cuddle up with on the couch. My hubby has his own priorities, and I'm not one of them, except when it comes to sex...So to say that he's a lucky man? I don't think he realizes HOW LUCKY he is!

Okay, so now to answer this man's first question--Why do I engage in cyber fun? Well since hubby has his own agenda, I have mine. I guess to answer his question of "doesn't your husband do that for you?" I'd have to say NO. He doesn't give me the things I need or desire.

Does anybody else feel this way, or am I alone in my thinking????

hardnhorny20069 51M

4/4/2006 12:03 pm

I am with you, Sister! I, too do not have what I need at home. I have the person to talk to, but nothing else. She don't cuddle, hold hands, have sex, snuggle, anything with me anymore. We live pretty close, how about you and me getting together and helping each other out with our needs? i can give you what you are missing and more if you will let me.

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