A Blank Page  

lovemetouchme5 52F
1534 posts
8/13/2006 7:09 pm

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A Blank Page

As I sit here staring at this blank screen, I think about my life right now. Since the divorce process is underway, I consider my life a blank page... one that I can write my own story. I'm in charge of all of my decisions. Whether right or wrong, it's up to me. I know that I am going to make mistakes along the way, but as long as I learn from those mistakes, I’LL BE OKAY!!!

One of the first things I’ve learned so far is not to let ANYONE manipulate me into doing something I don’t want to do. If I’m uncomfortable with a situation, I have to say NO.

But, this leads me to another thing I’ve learned. I am terrible with confrontations, as I don’t like to hurt anyone’s feelings. I have the tendency to get myself into situations that I have a hard time getting myself out of, simply because I can’t confront them.

So this leads me to a quandary. If I have trouble with confrontations, how can I say NO???

rm_jurgon3 57M
4603 posts
8/13/2006 7:40 pm

in that case fancy a shag! lol im only kidding loveme, hope you find what your looking for

Be lucky!

brute472 75M
3480 posts
8/13/2006 7:45 pm

So this leads me to a quandary. If I have trouble with confrontations, how can I say NO???

I have no doubt that a wise woman like you will find a way.
If you are lucky and the question is one you are hoping for then there will be no delemma will there?
Thanks for the warm fuzzies.

curiousinlorain7 60F

8/14/2006 3:27 am

    Quoting rm_mzhunyhole:
    It's like this sweetie..ya just open your mouth..and say NO..I know it's hard,but there comes a point in your life that it's time to say what ya mean..and if it's no..then say it..stand firm..if ya don't take up for your ownself..who is gonna take up for ya?..Now say it with me..NO!
could anyone possibly give you any better advice than what mzhuny gave you?? no...

somethingelse40 76M
14676 posts
8/14/2006 10:36 am

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