Men do all the work  

lovehair00 61M
18 posts
7/23/2005 6:45 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Men do all the work

My expierence with this site, is men have to do all the work. Women sit back and wait to be contacted. Just like in the real world. Women wait for the man to walk up, and strike up a conversation. We are supposed to be equal in the 21 century. But nothing has changed between the sexes. Give us men a break, don't just sit there and wait for us. Men are visual no photo and you might not get noticed. If you are truely looking for a good man. Well then LOOK not wait.

108 posts
7/23/2005 8:25 am

I've contacted a few, but amit I'm guilty. However, I've also been told by some I've contacted that I was to forward, and they expected me to keep it up, or that I was a dom.. I have received photos of one person, and turns out I'm responding to a totally diffent person all together.WTF?

TheDodger8 46M

7/23/2005 9:21 am

<--- *points to lovehair00 * Yeah...what he said!

It is true..... kinda of tough for us guys on here...we have to take all the risks..well at first.

007sexy40plus 52F  
7603 posts
7/23/2005 9:48 am

lovehair, the word rejection comes to mind as I read your post. No woman or man like to be rejected by the opposite sex. And having that happen in the real world just as it happens here, I doubt that you will see too many women making the first move because men here are exactly as you said, they are visual and if they see something wrong with the woman they will skip right on over her. I have become the same way with men, If I dont see something I like, I move on.

I have tried to contact men before and got ignored, so I say "two can play that game"

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

rm_venture12002 64M
67 posts
7/23/2005 10:06 am

The men outnumber the woman 100 to 1 on here, so they don't have to work at it.I've had some tell me they get almost 60 emails a day.That's why I went back to standard member.I just stay on to read the blogs.

mastre03 65M

7/23/2005 4:22 pm

hey, chill man, there aren't very many things that are still left for men to do... cherchez la femme! may be the last bastion of male prerogative

and as venture12002 says there are way more men on this site...

do lot's and lot's of winking... you might be surprised what turns up.

best of luck.

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