Is it possible to be best friends with a member of the opposite sex?  

lostmydrinkagain 45F
2339 posts
7/26/2006 1:18 pm

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8/1/2006 3:38 pm

Is it possible to be best friends with a member of the opposite sex?

Do you think it's possible?
yes
no



2daycowboywanted 46F

7/26/2006 1:25 pm

Not only is it possible he happens to be the greatest lover I have ever had!


lostmydrinkagain 45F
2272 posts
7/26/2006 1:38 pm

    Quoting 2daycowboywanted:
    Not only is it possible he happens to be the greatest lover I have ever had!
Yah, me too. It's scary sometimes though.


lostmydrinkagain 45F
2272 posts
7/26/2006 1:39 pm

    Quoting childofthe70s:
    most relationships are based on the fact that the other half is their best friend.
I'm a late bloomer, this is a first for me.


Sulabula 46F
12659 posts
7/26/2006 1:41 pm

Yes...you can

Sula xxx

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buddhamike 107M
7006 posts
7/26/2006 1:43 pm

Sure it's possible. No doubt about it.


DakR1972 45M  

7/26/2006 1:52 pm

I am living proof of that concept. Some of my best and closest friends are the opposite sex.


lynnbluff 42F

7/26/2006 2:07 pm

I know it is possible. I've had a male best friend for alomst eight years.


49AK 56M
1823 posts
7/26/2006 2:13 pm

Yes, but he wants to do you...

*smile*


lostmydrinkagain 45F
2272 posts
7/26/2006 2:41 pm

    Quoting 49AK:
    Yes, but he wants to do you...

    *smile*
he is doing me.


p33c3y0 43M

7/26/2006 3:05 pm

absolutely ... though i think it depends a lot on the person (i know a lot of women that feel more comfortable around guys and vice versa).


rm_tbearmike 58M
25 posts
7/28/2006 6:29 pm

Absolutely yes. My best friend for the past 14 years is a lady I respect and love dearly. Have we slept together? No we haven't but almost did. We talked ourselves down, but admitted to each other at the time we wanted to. Maybe some day when the time is right we will.


Angelkisses4U73 45F
3 posts
7/30/2006 11:03 pm

Yes, It most definitely is possible!!..You know what they say best friends make better lovers!!! My best friend is my lover!!! In order for a relationship to work you need to be friends first, build trust, share with one another, cause you just don't make love to anybody!! My lover and I spent so much time with each other we got used to each others habits, behaviours, even our thought we in sync, we just became more drawn to each other. Unexpected pleasures are the greatest!!!


Angelkisses4U73 45F
3 posts
7/30/2006 11:05 pm

Yes, It most definitely is possible!!..You know what they say best friends make better lovers!!! My best friend is my lover!!! In order for a relationship to work you need to be friends first, build trust, share with one another, cause you just don't make love to anybody!! My lover and I spent so much time with each other we got used to each others habits, behaviours, even our thoughts were in sync, we just became more drawn to each other. Unexpected pleasures are the greatest!!!


lostmydrinkagain 45F
2272 posts
8/1/2006 3:38 pm

    Quoting Angelkisses4U73:
    Yes, It most definitely is possible!!..You know what they say best friends make better lovers!!! My best friend is my lover!!! In order for a relationship to work you need to be friends first, build trust, share with one another, cause you just don't make love to anybody!! My lover and I spent so much time with each other we got used to each others habits, behaviours, even our thoughts were in sync, we just became more drawn to each other. Unexpected pleasures are the greatest!!!
I couldn't have said it better.


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