Just wanting to figure out what to do!  

lookingguy4girl 61M
3 posts
12/3/2005 8:17 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Just wanting to figure out what to do!

Just wanting to figure out what to do today! I have been surfing and getting nothing done!
I should be working on my on-line schooling but just do not feel like doing it! Only 9 months to go! Grin.

Life’s sucks now, since the soon to be x-wife left. Still not sure what she meant by “love you” but not IN love with you. We have had problems for the last year with that. Sex stopped back in early September. Now have to start over again. Good/bad part is that she left as a friend, I still care for her. Do not talk much to her since she left, hurts 2 much and she probably does not want to talk any way!

While surfing, my sweet dogs, decided to TP my living room, 2nd time this week! I got to remember to close the BR door!

This afternoon, I am going to a church social. Have never been to one so hope it goes well. Will update later today about how it goes.

Going back to the books. Have a nice day.

Back from the social! Was kind of fun. Got a good meal and a tour of a 1889 church in Claburn, TX. That was so cool. Miss connected with one friend but found another! Life is so funny sometimes.


12/3/2005 10:01 am

"Still not sure what she meant by ?love you? but not IN love with you."

Well once you can honesly say that back to her you'll get it.

It means...

I want the very best for you but quite honestly I know that _I'm_ not the best for you so we'll both be better off in the long run by now going out and finding a person beter suited for ourselves.

Both my last girlfriend and I knew that from the start but the sex was _so_ spectacular that we both took our time looking for the next one.

She beat me to it too and even though I knew down deep it was the right thing to do it still had a huge impact on me emottionally when that time came.

Even if you've been with the wrong person for awhile the heart (and genitals in this case) can still grow quite fond of the one you've been spending close time with,

Of course these days I'm quite happy that we split and know without a doubt that looking for another partner was the right path for us to both go on but the first two years apart were rather rough!

Good luck finding someone new!



lookingguy4girl 61M
3 posts
12/3/2005 4:13 pm

Know it will be for the best but do not want a committed relationship right now... Looking for a partner to hang with that will get me out of the house as well as letting me practice my favorite sport... but a bing!

rm_lickmepretty 52F
851 posts
12/4/2005 6:14 am

(doggies are trying to get you back to "celebrating" life by "decorating")

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