what brings us here...  

lonleynbig 56F
6 posts
8/27/2006 9:38 am

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8/29/2006 12:59 pm

what brings us here...

I just got set up on this site a couple of days ago, and have been "browsing", reading profiles, etc. The one thing that impresses me is what brings us here.
For me, I guess I am just looking to make a connection with someone - to spend some small amount of time with, to be paid attention to and to pay attention to that person. But the real question is, what brings any of us here? Is it mostly for sex, or the hope of something steamy and sultry, to block all the other crap of everyday life out of the mind for a little while. Like the alcoholic who takes a drink to numb the pain of some void in life. Perhaps that is for myself as well. I am looking to fill a void...
One that shouldn't even be there in the first place - I mean really, even if you are not in a committed relationship, is sex really that important? The answer to that is, OF COURSE - yes it is... Sex is so much a part of who we are, but it is a part that the majority of us keep hidden away behind closed doors. So perhaps by joining this site, and sharing experiences, and bodies with others we are trying to bring the part of us that society perfes to keep under wraps. I look forward to comments from everyone!

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
8/27/2006 10:12 am

Sounds familiar!


Purry {=}


Hydragenias 57F

8/27/2006 10:21 am

I think there are as many reasons for being here as there are members!

Welcome to the Blogs!

rm_mistalot 55M

8/27/2006 10:58 am

Wow! So well said.
I am trying to fill the intimacy void in my life. I need to escape the daily crap and find comfort and safety (emotionally) in a physical relationship.
When you are naked with someone there is nothing to hide behind. In sex you have to monitor your partners reaction to meet their need, to fulfill them. When you satisfy them and they satisfy you, there is a connection, if only for a few moments that is more than platonic; If you are lucky, maybe even spiritual.
That is what I seek.

TravelinMan161 57M
28 posts
8/27/2006 1:26 pm

Wow-what a great intro! Very insightful. I can definitely relate, and I think that there are probably a good many more (maybe even the majority?) on this site who can too. Look forward to seeing your future blog posts!

rm_frnthr 62M
28 posts
8/28/2006 1:14 pm

may be its so we feel wanted or needed it also gives a great adrenalin rush its a human instinct and can be fun with the right person sometimes the right person to have sex with is not the one that you do other things with

griffdogg23 40M

9/9/2006 5:36 pm

hit me up if ur lonely

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