UNSURE HOW TO PROCEED  

lonelyhearthotel 49F
9 posts
8/11/2006 7:01 pm

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8/25/2006 4:06 pm

UNSURE HOW TO PROCEED


I am in the middle of a divorce and am having serious problems with the ex. He is mentally ill and quite capable of anything. Recently (somehow) he has gotten wind of my profile on here. I have no idea how. Well actually it is my other profile. I changed a few details in here so that he doesn't track me so fast. My problem is that he is insanely jealous. I have gotten to the point where I am afraid to meet anyone or even try to have a relationship because I worry that he will hurt someone. I hate living in fear and not having control over my life. I have been told to just lay back until the divorce is final, but he has already told me that the divorce means nothing to me- he will get me back in his life. He hasn't done anything that can be used against him for a restraining order or anything like that. So do I wait this our and hope that he loses interest in me and finds someone else or do I go ahead and possibly get someone innocent involved in my crap? Don't judge me-just would like to know what others think. I have been back and forth on this one. Appreciate any insite that people can give me.

SexGoddess2901 52F
207 posts
8/11/2006 7:50 pm

OH wow! I think I would just wait it out especially if there is a possibility that he would hurt you or someone else. I know that it may seem that he is contolling the situation but if you think that he is mentally ill, it's better to be safe than sorry.

Hope all goes well for you! My thoughts and best wishes are with you!


rm_DharmicDawn 66M

8/11/2006 9:55 pm

I agree with Shaye......take a break until the judge's hammer hits the wood.

It ain't over 'til the fat man hits the water....or something like that.

I thought I had a potential meeting from an online friendship and, well, the lady was a little less than forthcoming about her marital status...separated but not yet divorced. I dropped that immediately. The last thing I need is to be a party to someone else's unresolved mess.

I'd be seriously suspicious of anyone who would date you until your marriage is legally disolved.

D.D.


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