So yeah....  

rm_lockestryfe 37M
63 posts
2/15/2006 1:08 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

So yeah....

Okay. As in real life, I'm being ignored here. I post my blog. I go to the chat rooms. I send winks, and what not. And I hardly get any responses at all. Cause I don't have a pic up yet? That's coming. Is it because I'm 5'6", weigh about 125 lbs, and look like a twig? None of you really know that, no pics up. What gives? . I know people have viewed my blogs, cause it tells you. I know people have the same thoughts sometimes, cause I read it in other blogs. What gives? I just went into the closest chat room regionally to me, (Philly/Tri-state) and sat there and said hi and stuff, and no one, I MEAN NO ONE responded. What's the point? I mean, not everyone has credit cards to go and become silver members around here, let alone the gold. I love how everytime I log on, it takes me to the account upgrade screen. Just some of my thoughts right now. I guess I'll wait and see...

Transblucency 45M

2/28/2006 9:54 pm

Yeah, don't sweat it re the chat rooms. No one ever says hello to an anonymous male in the chat rooms.

The men don't do it because they don't want to be seen as gay, don't want to acknowledge competition, or are too busy trying to pry their way into a conversation with a Real Live Woman (tm).

The women don't do it because being a woman who says "hi" in an AdultFriendFinder chatroom to a man is tantamount to saying "please pester me for the rest of the chat and via private message until I put you on ignore and you start making threats."

Or so you will discover if you read the blogs. It *is* possible to 'break in' a chatroom. Polite, non-threatening, good-humored pleasant persistence will eventually make you a regular and recognized member. Might not get you laid though, and you have to decide whether night after night of rampant horndogism all around you is worth it or not.

I met my last GF in an AdultFriendFinder chat room, so good things can happen.

But I doubt it's typical. I'm looking elsewhere than chat for any possible relationships.

I wish you well though. And take your insulin, young man!

*wags finger*

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