Here we go again...  

lmonique 42F
33 posts
1/16/2006 8:30 am

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Here we go again...

It's been about a week and I haven't had any sex. My pussy is throbbing for some serious male attention. I went the entire weekend without seeing; barely speaking to the man I am supposedly seeing, so that gives me some cause to pause. When I am bored and horny my imagination works overtime and that's rarely a good thing for the man in question. For example: When we are together, things are great, we laugh, we talk, we genuinely enjoy one another's company; but when we are not... I can't help but think he's not to be trusted. We are not a couple but have agreed to a one-on-one sexual relationship, but HOW DO I REALLY KNOW HE'S BEING HONEST? I know I have all kinds of opportunities to go outside of our agreement so I can only assume the same for him. I suppose that's one of the major drawbacks of meeting someone on a site such as this; trust is inevitably a problem. I hate this!

ldftb1 37M
214 posts
1/16/2006 9:50 am

not judging, but you said that you have both agreed to a "one-on-one sexual relationship", so whats trust got to do with it, if you wanna have sex, let him know and if he is available then you can get it on, if he isnt available, then he isnt obligated to do nothing. knowing him, he probably has another woman somewhere who he is serious with.
if i didnt know better, i would say you are thinking that maybe just maybe you want more than a "one-on-one sexual relationship"
dont shoot the messenger, and just laying it down the way it is.

ps - love you nip

lmonique 42F

1/16/2006 10:39 am

i agree with you to an extent. we are not just sleeping together, we are "seeing" one another so that adds another dynamic to the equation. we agreed on honesty and respect and if either of us wanted to do something outside of us or wanted something more or even different between us, we'd discuss it PRIOR to. that being said, i am almost certain there's someone else, probably more than one, although he's assured me there isn't. but as the saying goes, "crazy and stupid are two different things." so with this added information, what are your thoughts?

btw... thx for the complement.

rm_boobie37 38M
7 posts
6/5/2006 12:00 am

if you think he's cheating outside of a allicance that you to made.Then i would hate to hate on another brother but it's time for you to move on.First because you know you don't really trust him.Second because you shouldn't have to even think about your man cheating.

lmonique 42F

6/16/2006 5:10 pm

we have gone our separate ways since then and i am currently celibate. it's so hard to find good help.

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