Friends with Benefits...  

lizalickem4u 59F
1836 posts
9/12/2006 5:13 am

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9/13/2006 5:08 am

Friends with Benefits...

Friends with exactly is that interpreted? We all have our "definitions." I do find it interesting when I encounter a married or attached man and he immediately proceeds to inform me of HIS schedule and when HE can get together...this used to bother me...I mean a man wants a "friend with benefits," "no strings attached" deal with a gal but it needs to be when it works with HIS schedule...Oh yeah, I can get together with you sometime during the work day...afternoons are best for me...I MAY be able to get together around 6:00 p.m. but 5:30 p.m. would work better for, I guess I'm trying to figure out what "benefit" I'll get out of all this...oh, yeah, a hard cock in my little hot pocket???!!!! Wow, that's what a benefit is...a hard cock...and maybe I'll even get my pussy licked a little bit!!!!

Okay, I'm being a bit fascious in that we all know what kind of "friend with benefits" most of us are seeking here on AdultFriendFinder...but come on, I'm not desperate for hard cock...quite the opposite...I enjoy and love variety in sex, thus the ability to choose the hard cocks that I enjoy from time to time...

I guess the price of being an "independent" woman is that the choices of cock are few and far other words MY schedule actually comes into play...I do find it amusing though when a married man within the first or second note shares with me his schedule for the immediate few days or week, even going so far as detailing what his next week's schedule will be so I can plan accordingly.

There are a few men that I will do my best to accomodate...they understand that I work a fulltime day job and know when I am available...they know that I will do my best to work with them if they work with me to schedule our delightful fuck fest...just interesting to me the level of thoughlessness that the married/attached man has for the single gal...My availability is what it is...for those that feel I'm whining or complaining...those that will comment about that's what I get for fucking married men...yes, I know, but it isn't limited to the married/attached men...they are the worst with this but even the single/divorced/widowed guys take this availability thing as something that they need to be accomodated.

Not a problem, some of us gals actually get up and go to work at a real day job, every day, 5 days a week, 8:00 a.m. to 5:00 or 6:00 p.m. Work with me Sweetie and you won't be disappointed...I'll work with you to get together if you work with me...a give and take with benefits!!!

markxx1 52M  
22 posts
9/12/2006 3:27 pm

I was reading all of your posts and I must say WOW!!!! You are one hot lady and anybody that meets you in any capacity is a lucky person!

greatguyintul 56M
2102 posts
9/13/2006 12:36 am

You are SO right! I thought it was a 50/50 deal, something that accomodates BOTH people EQUALLY. I'm REALLY sorry that some men are jerks, Liza. Those guys are completely wrong and I am so sorry.

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