The verdict is in  

little_lessie 36F
12 posts
2/14/2006 9:48 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

The verdict is in

I went back to the doctors today for a follow-up and he gave me news that almost caused me to pass out.
Yes folks, the little lessie is pregnant.
I can not believe it.
How? you might ask.
The usual way and my own stupid ego caused it.
Chloe, my ex, always had a problem with the fact that I had slept with men in the past (3 in all) before I got together with her. She was my first woman and before her I only realised that with men there was something missing but with her I was complete. Eventually she just couldn't deal with it and left before I left her, as she put it.
I was very hurt and when the first opportunity arose I slept with a guy in some feeble attempt to get back at her. It sort of back-fired on me and now I have a bigger dilemma. My step-mother will freak, my real mother won't care but my dad, I just don't know. I don't think he is ready for somethnig like this, he still sees me as his little girl.
I'm not sure what to do or say to anyone about this butI'm going to have to soon.
I've well and truly f@#ked this up, haven't I?

rm_MustangD6644 52M
1031 posts
2/24/2006 4:18 am

Well Lessie you really are in quite a pickle, and you certainly have had an interesting Valentines Day.

I'm not going to tell you what to do as that is for you to decide and this is part of what having sexual relationships can result in.

Some things to consider are;

At 24 you are at an age where not so long ago you would have been considered an old mother, then a middle aged mother, and now a young mother, and possibly soon a very young mother.

Children come when they want to come, not necessarily when you want them to come, so you have to consider the possibility that you may not always be given another opportunity in the future because life is like that.

They are an amazing experience with all the highs and lows that come with them. They require a hell of a lot from you and still ask for more.

No matter how old or how rich or how well educated you are, you just never seem to be prepared enough. But somehow kids survive and prosper. One look at all the people in this world will tell you that somehow it all works out.

The only person who can decide on just exactly what to do is you because you are the one who has to live with the decision, and lets not kid ourselves here, it is no easy decision.

It is all up to you, and you have to do what you think is right for you, not anyone else, just what is right for you.

I wish you all the best in making your decision, write it down then sleep on it and review it in the morning. Be realistic and honest with yourself.


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