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lightweight1988 47F
7 posts
5/22/2006 4:03 pm

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5/31/2006 3:58 am

questions to all


Let me know is it not right for a couple who has been married for so long to be curious about other things to try and do?? Or to be curious about being with someone else together or apart but to want to know how they feel and to make them happy?? Please let me know what you all think.

honeycomb1974 45M/44F
282 posts
5/22/2006 6:06 pm

It is not wrong for a happily married couple to explore sex together. It is just part of a healthy relationship to share your deepest fantasies with your partner it is what keeps a marriage fresh and exciting. Only when you choose to hide it from your partner is it wrong. If it was wrong their wouldn't be so many of us out here doing it. Don't look for trouble if both your husband and you are happy with the way you are living your life that is all that matters. Have fun and play safe. Honey and Runt


vidiohunter 52M

5/22/2006 6:18 pm

22000 and counting ,cant all be wrong ,,can they?


rm_a_real_nice1 61M
572 posts
5/22/2006 6:20 pm

It's not unusual for coupkle who have been together a long time to wonder what might be. Thoughts enter in to eachothers minds from time to time. i suggest that a couple you sit and chat about things, fantasies, wondering, and such. Be open and honest, then take it from there.


spacecadet561 61M

5/22/2006 7:32 pm

Variety is the spice of life. I gather that you're happy but think you could be happier. You might want to start off with simple things, like erotic stories or videos, and go from there if you still want more. AdultFriendFinder seems to be a good place to meet other swingers, either individuals or couples, depending on your desires. Good luck.

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rm_dingo6972 48M

5/24/2006 7:53 am

sounds like you need somthing diffrent is that true if so try but be carefull.


lightweight1988 47F

5/25/2006 6:07 pm

    Quoting honeycomb1974:
    It is not wrong for a happily married couple to explore sex together. It is just part of a healthy relationship to share your deepest fantasies with your partner it is what keeps a marriage fresh and exciting. Only when you choose to hide it from your partner is it wrong. If it was wrong their wouldn't be so many of us out here doing it. Don't look for trouble if both your husband and you are happy with the way you are living your life that is all that matters. Have fun and play safe. Honey and Runt
Iknow that it is natural to be curious.I have shared all of myself and more with my partner,it just seems that we all go through times when we wonder more than others about things We are both very active and happy together but are looking to and i guess a little excitement to our world


Katalyst_7 47M
1 post
5/28/2006 5:07 am

In most of my relationships it was my idea to help the girl try to explore. But, most people I've met aren't mature/advanced enough for both man and woman to honestly handle those situations. Most times, one or the other gets hurt because of things like that. But, if the two really Love each other and are really honest with each other, there are many ways to explore sex or just fantasies or intimacy of some kind with people outside the marriage. It's just that, almost every situation I've known about, there is one or both of them who ends up getting jealous or hurt or some other negative situation.


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