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Posted:Dec 11, 2006 11:49 pm
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2008 6:26 am
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Erotic_Caresses... would love to hear about what you're learning... and if you need more tuition or a study partner!

Leave me a message and have a good look at my blog title!
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Sexual Addiction
Posted:Dec 5, 2006 5:54 pm
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2024 8:57 am
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This is an article I've borrowed from another dating site lava life.

Addicted to Love
Inside the World of a Sex Addict

By Sarah Fielding


It's a term often bandied about by the media, but what is sexual addiction?

Sexual addiction is an umbrella term for a range of sexual behaviours that, according to sex therapist/author Patrick Carnes (www sexhelp com), "interferes with normal living and causes severe stress on family, friends, loved ones and one's work environment."

Hi, I'm John, and I'm a Sex Addict

The actual number of those suffering from sex-based addictions is difficult to determine, due to the secretive nature of the addiction. However, the National Council on Sexual Addiction Compulsivity in the U.S. estimated that six to eight per cent of Americans (or 18 million to 24 million people) are sex addicts. The number in Australia, according to a Today Tonight news report in 2005, could be as high as one million.

Sex-based addictions can manifest as obsessive thoughts about sex, an insatiable sex drive (though this should not be confused with a high sex drive), compulsive masturbation and an addiction to viewing porn.

Sex and Drugs and...

Psychologists believe that sex addicts, like Drug addicts, crave the process of satisfaction as much, if not more, than the end result. Dopamine, a powerful neurotransmitter produced by the brain when the body is experiencing pleasure, is what sustains the sex addict. The effects of dopamine on the body are similar to that of illicit, mood-enhancing Drugs such as cocaine.

So the term 'sex addict' is no exaggeration, the brain of the affected person craves the body's organically produced sexual chemicals like a Drug addict craves their next fix. The sex addict will often create complex rituals to meet their ends, in much the same way as Drug addicts become compulsive about their Drug culture and paraphernalia.

"I wasn't in a great place," says Barb, who sought treatment for alcohol and sexual dependencies. "I'd get out of it and then end up going home with a stranger, and the next day, would have little memory of the whole thing." After Barb contracted as STD from one such encounter, a friend suggested she seek counselling to try to uncover the reasons she was acting out. After seeking professional help, Barb began a 12-step programme to address her addictions.

Sexual addiction coupled with Drug addiction is a powerfully destructive combination and one that requires expert advice and counselling.

The Sex Addict at Work

Tony, 35, a self-confessed sex addict, admits to masturbating at work, up to five times a day. "I couldn't stop," says the call centre supervisor, admitting that he could not resist the urge to masturbate. "I didn't want sex with my girlfriend, it didn't satisfy me the way this did." Tony eventually sought the help of a sex therapist, but not until his relationship had deteriorated to the point where his girlfriend left him.

Sex Addicts We Know
The world of entertainment has taken an interest in sexual addiction of late, with TV characters and even features films focusing on this issue. In the cosmetic surgery drama series Nip/Tuck, Christian Troy epitomises the reckless behaviour of a sex addict in full swing. And if you take a trip down Wisteria Lane, you'll find reformed sex addict Peter McMillian ensconced in the daily lives of those Desperate Housewives. Tatty tabloids and celebrity mags around the globe shift millions of copies of their publications on the mere whiff of a celebrity confessing to a sexual addiction. It's all riveting, salacious stuff.

But sexual addiction is not something that should be trivialised for the sake of creating good entertainment. Left untreated, sexual addiction, like dependencies on Drugs, alcohol and gambling, can ruin people's lives.

The Warning Signs

Sexual addiction is not the same as having a high sex drive, or broad-minded sexual pursuits. Sex Addicts Anonymous has identified some of the most common signs associated with sexual addiction:

*Do you keep secrets about your sexual activities, particularly from those you care about?
*Do you find yourself having sex with people, or in places you would not normally?
*Do you seek out sexually arousing material in movies, newspapers, or online?
*Do you prefer sexual fantasies to actual physical acts with someone you love?
*Do you feel remorse, shame, or guilt after a sexual encounter?
*Do you find becoming aroused requires more variety than before?
*Do you lean towards dangerous or illegal activities in the pursuit of sexual satisfaction?
*Do you engage in unsafe sexual practices that have resulted in sexually transmitted disease, unplanned pregnancy, or abuse?
*Does your sexual behaviour leave you feeling depressed or isolated?
If you answered yes to one or more of these questions, perhaps it's time to call in the experts. To find out about support services in your area, visit Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous at www slaafws org or Sexaholics Anonymous at www sa org
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fake, augmented, enlarged
Posted:Jun 28, 2006 11:34 pm
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2008 6:26 am
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I've been thinking about fake, augmented, enlarged breasts recently.

I've never had the chance to experience a pair... and I wonder what they're like?

Maybe there's an Adelaide woman or couple that would care to share some with me? Or maybe people could just post a comment on their experiences with them.

I've certainly seen some... and I rather like the real thing... but I've found that if I can't touch and lick and caress them... I just don't really know them
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Fake South Australian profiles
Posted:Jun 13, 2006 6:42 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2006 1:46 am
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Hi All!

I just thought I'd warn you all about a couple of South Australian profiles that are very suspicious.

Both of the following have responded to me and then proceeded to over do how horny and wanting they are (great if true) and then proceed to tell me to go to a web site... that I have to join! to get their contact numbers.

intimate_gentl16
TheRover060

Great to note that both profiles have been disabled or removed!
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Pregnant women / "uptheduffnhorny"
Posted:Apr 18, 2006 11:13 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2006 1:48 am
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Just thought I'd say a little something about pregnant women...

Most of them are delicious...!!!

There really is a truth to the saying that most pregnant women glow! They look gorgeous! Their swollen bellies and breast... the often heightened level of arousal! Yum!

I'd love to chat with or better still meet up with some sexy Adelaide Sth Aust women or couples who are pregnant! Or possibly even some yummy mummies who are lactating... that's kind of intriguing too!

uptheduffnhorny if you read this... I'd love for you to get in touch... I can't contact you as I'm not a piad member... but you can find me where males are hot!
Love your pics by the way... WOW!!!
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Premier Entry
Posted:Apr 18, 2006 11:05 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2006 1:48 am
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Hi All!

I'm a 30yo male living in Adelaide, South Australia.

I'm married, hence the name "lieingcheatinbastard" I just figured I'd call myself what a number of you would!

I'm looking for intimate encounters with sexy women, couples or groups. I am discrete and except the same, as like the popular cleche I love my wife.

If you can't accept me for who/what I am... well that really isn't my problem, it's yours... good bye I don't need to hear from you.

Everyone else... particularly those within what I'm seeking... Love to hear from you
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