Why am I a bottom only?  

libertybottom 75M
18 posts
2/22/2006 7:55 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Why am I a bottom only?


I was asked that in a reply to one of my musings and maybe some of you older guys can help me. My Dr, doesnt seem to have the answer. I would love to be versitile. I guess it goes to my early experiences when a friend and I used to f k each other. About two years ago I started having high blood pressure and prostrate problems, something all you younger guys can look forward to as you get older. The Dr. prescribed a medication that is supposed to treat both. Very soon I started having erectile problems. We changed the medicine a couple of times and nothing seems to help. Unfortunately, because of the blood pressure problem I cannot take viagra or any of the ED drugs. Tired cock rings etc and cant seem to find anything that helps. Extremely frustrating. So thats why I am a bottom. Not due to any imaginary line that I am afraid to cross, just simple physical reasons.

rm_BiF33Ut 51F
295 posts
2/22/2006 8:49 am

Hmmm... Perhaps either I.. or you.. have a different impression of what a bottom is.

In my world, a bottom is a person that is sexually submissive. I don't think that erectile problems would indicate if you are a Top or a bottom.

My X had some erectile problems, which actually resolved completely when he had his prostrate removed (hmmm.. or was it when I moved out.. they ran so close together). Of course the damage had already been done to our relationship, so the fact that he could make love to my gal pal the week after I left him was just a little extra salt in the open wound... but I was pleased to see that he was able to enjoy sex again....

Good luck with that... I wish you the best with that...

I am still curious though to hear what your definition of a bottom is...


Satyr48 69M
1809 posts
2/22/2006 9:12 am

Woah! Too bad... Sorry about the ED.
I don't use Viagra or Cialis or any of that, but I do take herbal suppliments. It may just be a placebo effect, but I'm always hornier when I take them.
There's also a few new erectile creams and swabs that are supposed to work, but I haven't tried them yet. I see them advertised on sites like Xandria, and AdultFriendFinder has a "Shop" that may have some too...
My problem is actually the opposite... It pops up with the slighteset provocation, but then Mr. Premature Ejaculation sometimes creeps in.
I guess the grass is always greener...
Good luck...

Pleasing women in unbelievable ways for 45 years...
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