How do you say No Thank you?  

legsallthewayup 54F  
88 posts
7/20/2006 12:11 pm

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How do you say No Thank you?

It happens to all of us. Someone shows an interest in us and makes a play and we don't necessarily feel the same way....different pages if you will....How do YOU decline?

How do I say no thank you? God, I dont think I have ever said no. Usually I just say, no no, leave it on the nightstand, that way I know where to find it for the next time. LOL...oh
wait, you're talking about something different....

I have found that bluntness is my preferred choice here. I try not to be rude and say stuff like, damn son, have you looked in a mirror lately? or , who you gonna please with
that thing? or the ever popular, You, are living proof that crack does not smoke itself if you think there is a snowballs chance
in hell of me getting near you, ever. Instead, I endeavor to employ more tactful, yet still clearly negative , responses.

You must be at least this big to ride this ride is a favorite, but I have found that perhaps that borders on rudeness. Damn, Hey guys, I need some new material. Can anyone suggest
to me what to say and how to say it when the first thing I want to scream is HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL NOOOOOOOOO....I apparently
have never grown filters or an internal monologue and I need help!!

Just say no, what an interesting concept........



AstirRelicLatah 65M
1993 posts
7/20/2006 3:14 pm

My favorite is to ask people to politely eat shit and die. That usually does the trick. If you want to do it person, you can always get some cards made up.


sexgoddess1275 42F
66 posts
7/20/2006 10:15 pm

You know Miss Slanders, when you figure it out let me know....cause I dont know either....Actually being rude seems to work best.. I have on many occassions said..."I'm sorry but no thank you"...and then added a nice "but good luck to you"..and what do I get in return?????
I get ..Hey Fuck you bitch..you fuckin whore!!...and various foul obsenities..that they only wish I was so then I WOULD Fuck them...But I am not those things so then I must behave as a elementary school kid and scream foulness back...,lol... But when I tell them "Hey Fucktard go away I hate you"....they crawl away quitely with their tail between their legs never to be heard from again... So go figure....guess whatever floats your boat and makes you happy is the way to go.


legsallthewayup replies on 7/20/2006 10:29 pm:
I always find that if I can dazzle them with my brilliance and expansive vocabulary, they will not really know what you REALLY said about them, but they kind of have a feeling it wasnt complimentary, but they dont want to appear stupid, god forbid, so they usually just fade back into the shadows until the next hapless lass comes along they can spew their bullshit on....I pity the fools. coming to the arena unarmed and wholly unprepared...
lol..like shootin fish in a bucket. thanks for playing hon, write if you find work....
hugs. legs

legsallthewayup 54F  
37 posts
7/21/2006 12:21 am

legsallthewayup replies on 7/20/2006 10:29 pm:
I always find that if I can dazzle them with my brilliance and expansive vocabulary, they will not really know what you REALLY said about them, but they kind of have a feeling it wasnt complimentary, but they dont want to appear stupid, god forbid, so they usually just fade back into the shadows until the next hapless lass comes along they can spew their bullshit on....I pity the fools. coming to the arena unarmed and wholly unprepared...
lol..like shootin fish in a bucket. thanks for playing hon, write if you find work....
hugs. legs


Calif_Cougar 59M  
12 posts
7/21/2006 7:46 am

Dear Anne Slanders;

I am curious to know what women prefer while giving head. do they prefer the load going down the throat or just inside their lips, or a shot from outside the mouth aimed at the tongue.

seems to me its the outside the mouth version.

would appreciate your opinion on this matter

Calif_Cougar


legsallthewayup 54F  
37 posts
7/21/2006 8:47 am

Dear loadmaster headway...

Since I have only been a woman for a couple months now, I am not qualified to speak as their spokeswoman on jizz load placement and theory. I do , however , have an opinion or two on the matter of the matter....They only pretend to like it anywhere on their face because they think thats what men want to see..trust me, hot , salty and sticky is not something you aspire to wear on your face, man or woman. however, adult film action stars and pretzel people may have a different preference than I..
I hope this helps you. In a word, cougar, tits, ass or toilet targets are the best in my opinion....ok..5 words.
tiredly,
anne. we have reached the end of our viewing day
beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep


rm_sexxikritter 53F
2715 posts
7/23/2006 8:11 pm

I came to take a peek thanks to DustyWidget.
Your posts are great, too funny. Keep rocking! I'll stop in again.


rm_seanymph3 65F
377 posts
7/29/2006 3:20 pm

I try to say no nicely but if in the course of the conversation they turn into a toad ......then they get whatever crap that tumbles outta my brain and spews from my mouth. You get what you give in life and if they dont wanna be nice why should I? I have found especially in here theres a certain kind of toad roaming around that just doesnt seem to have a brain........they cannot, no matter how you phrase it....understand the words no or not interested. Somehow they think it means everyone but them so .....all fair in love and war and I tried love so after that its war , I step on em!! MUHAHAHAHAAAAAAAA
signed,
The Wicked Witch of the West


SirMounts 103M

8/25/2006 5:42 pm

legsallthewayup...
Well, the direct approach is always the best... although how to word things can vary, depending on the circumstances and personalities.
A warm welcome to blogging, legsallthewayup. *smiling*


funnibunni 55F
97 posts
8/26/2006 1:13 pm

OK is this AFTER I have avoided the emails or IMs and pretended to not understand the question at hand??? Or AFTER I stop laughing at the sheer incredulousness of the propositions??? *just kidding* (maybe)
It really depends on the way in which I am approached...if they ask in a stupid manner they get a smart ass response...tit for tat..
but in all seriousness I ONLY laughed once and that was because I am a very visual person and when a little person asked to do certain things for me in a rather crude manner, I envisioned him being lost and suffocated between my butt cheeks...took me quite a while to regain composure.

Chocolate bunnies are for all year 'round


rm_Jyst4fun4 43M

9/2/2006 9:49 am

Hello Legs.....

Hello sexy ..... you know , i have a friend that uses all kinds of remarks... that i cant even believe she said it ... she has probably sent a lot of men to therapy because of it ..

my favorite response that she had was " ya know.. im really trying to get the point of what your saying , but i cant seem to get my head that for up my ass"

Or there is he one where she told the guy that she would rather turn the barstool over and bang herself with it , rather than go out with him


mad2u62 43M/43F

12/2/2006 12:49 am

Dear Legs,

Being rejected never is an easy feeling, so how we're gonna rephrase it doesn't matter that much. I would as politely say: Sorry, I don't think I'm attracted to you....but nice knowing you though and hang up as quickly as possible. I don't really care what he thinks.... plus that way I won't have to endure the grim possibilities of anyone being a toad!

Btw, I enjoy reading your article! Very inspiring and refreshing!


rm_CurvBHldr 66M
2292 posts
10/22/2007 7:05 pm

Politeness that may be misinterpreted? Having to then find other ways to say no? Bluntness that shrinks the libido, thus giving you perhaps an undeserved perception of an eversharp edge? Disinterest is disinterest. People are here to interact, and there are many people who are not interested in you. Period.. Hurt feelings? Oh well,...go elsewhere.


360Styx 57M

5/16/2008 8:02 pm

Dear Doctor Legs, I have to agree that direct is the best. Polite, but blunt. I'm not interested. Ignore is a click away anyway.

A line I've dropped on several guys repeatedly spamming gals in chat was: What do you think this is? Craig's List? Or alternatively, Maybe you should try Craig's List.

This place is misunderstood my many male bafoons. It's not about an instant hookup. I'm sure they wouldn't be so brash if they ran into a nice gal at a bar. Would they want their sister treated that way? Women are more about a mental stimulation before they are interested in ANY thing else.

Men on the other hand are more visual. So, when we see the Pee Pee pix or cam show up, the guy is doing it for self gratification, and like Ivory soap 99 & 44/100 of the time bomb. On that note, there are other cues, CAPLOCK in the nickname on entry most likely defines a mouth breather or knuckle dragger, this is an easy iggy for me.

I'm rambling now.. Ciao


high_kisskiss 62M
5 posts
6/24/2011 12:02 pm

I never got why a man-women would do that call a women-man names just because they reject him-her or what they want to do.

Hey if someone says no to playing around that's it means no, well I say sorry we didn't work out hope you find what your looking for. I like to have fun but I don't enjoy someone being rude when they don't get there way unless that's the role playing game your into


high_kisskiss 62M
5 posts
10/28/2011 11:19 am

hmmm this is fun


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