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lazyboy1964 53M
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3/8/2006 7:32 pm

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3/18/2006 5:14 am

Great feedback

So much has not happened since my last entry. But then so much has also happened. As I have been somewhat diligent in sending out a few winks and e-mails over the last few weeks, I still haven't gotten that hook up.

But then alas, one brave soul gave me some feedback that I just have to address (as well as some other topics that I'll try to ramble about in the next few). Any way, this contact tells me that my "big in Europe" blog may have in fact cock blocked some possible matches because of my poor choice of words to describe and compare American woman to those of the European flavor.

I had never thought that the simple comparison of the two could be taken differently than what I had intended? While there is/are differences physically, one is not necessarily better than the other. Rather just different.

Americans are Americans. And maybe I'm only talking about my frame of reference. Maybe I'm tainted in some way by the ones that I have met and had relationships with? There are plenty of beautiful American women out there and I'm sure eventually, maybe, I'll meet one that will have more substance than style.

Now, I've never dated a European woman so I have no point of reference for them. But I'm sure the same qualities that I've had the unfortunate experience meeting here, exist overseas.

But the real point here is the physical difference I was trying to point out?

I don't know. I think what it was in the end, was my admission that my previous relationships were miserable but that's because of my poor choices not because of the nationality. I guess I was projecting too much and in the same instance potentially offended some people?

For that I am sorry but maybe airing it out will help...well at least for me it does?

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