Just to start  

lavaexp1 52M
9 posts
3/14/2006 2:58 am

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3/19/2006 4:16 am

Just to start

Wow, I have heard of these Blog things; now I can actually partake!

Should the world bother to read, not sure. Few will note, or nor long remember these passages, but these words will connect minds, if only tangentialy! They must, YOU are reading them.

Just think, how else could we have connected!

Anyway, for those of you that are bothered, I like to livealittle12 where the mail is hot. Of course, for those of you into Cryptic crosswords, you are away, and enjoying the puzzle, even if it is an obvious one!

My perusal of material on the AdultFriendFinder fascinates me somewhat! Is sex such a driver for humanity? I walk down the street, into my work, and wonder what hidden depths are being left unstirred, with the conventions imposed by these contexts.

The AdultFriendFinder is almost a parallel universe, where we boldly go those places many of us would NEVER dare in our normal lives.

Fascinating! I bet Freud, Jung and the whole Job Lot of those guys would have given their right arm to have this facility!

I notice that the ratio of men to women is very unbalanced. Why is this?

I tend to look at relationships around me, where a couple have a dependency on each other, the man is the source of the "resources" that maintain the kids, home, and life that the woman wants at one level; but there is ALWAYS another level. That woman, and man, are programmed to mate more widely and more often!

Typically, the woman has a lot of female friends, the conventions of society places strict limits on the interaction with the Opposite sex; maybe a bit of flirting, maybe more ....

The man, busy with work, bringing home the bacon, but checking out all the women at his workplace, again constrained...

Enter AdultFriendFinder.... a means to connect to all those other "conventional" lives, as long as the rules are set out, up front in the profile, all works well.

Hmmm, does it? Do we revert to satisfying primal urge, and have a great time doing so? Does it make us happier? Do we become more or less content?

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
3/14/2006 4:02 am


Purry {=}


rm_MustangD6644 52M
1031 posts
3/15/2006 5:55 pm

Welcome to Blogland lava;

The path to blog nirvana is filled with much introspection and navel gazing. A blog can be such a cruel mistress at times, but it is also very good for clarifying and clearing thoughts out of your head.

Enjoy, but dont fly to close to the Sun.


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