Hello, why so rude?  

lancslover2000 53M
6 posts
10/3/2005 10:17 pm

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4/14/2006 8:15 pm

Hello, why so rude?

Hi there all you AdultFriendFinder folks.

I've been using AdultFriendFinder for a couple of weeks or so, and had some fun chats, seen some nice and some not so nice pics, and even had a meet, but I'll talk about that another time when I am feeling more generous-spirited.

What I do want to comment on is basic rudeness. Bad manners. And I have seen several instances of this already.

Most obvious is in the chat rooms, you know the guys who send the same post over and over, sometimes six or seven times in a row, so the page is full of their inane anouncements. I don't know how those of you on Broadband find it but this is a complex site and inevitably a little slow sometimes, but it is made far worse by these idiots blocking the bandwidth and blocking the room.
It can also be hard to follow a conversation in the room at best, but when you lose the thread you wanted to follow because some idiot has posted the same gibberish six times it is most frustrating.

Then there is the toatlly gratuitous abuse I get from the occasional woman by email. I had one yesterday, I had sent a polite message about me, saying that as we were local and our basic profiles matched did she want to chat and see how it goes. Her response? 'Kiss my arse'
Can anybody out there tell me what the point of that was? Would a simple 'sorry not my type' not have been as easy and far more civil?

And a woman I have started to chat to said that she wanted to make friends first, she has not yet met anybody. So I asked her what she did for a living. I got a reply back 'You don't need to know'
Well excuse me, but its a conversational gambit, an attempt to get to know somebody, but as thats her attitude well obviously she isn't on my level anyway.

It just puzzles me, and I have to say angers me, why some people can be so rude for no reason apparent to me.

Jusdewit8 54F

10/4/2005 2:39 am

Pretty regularly I'm told I am full of shit,and recently was told I am an over-demanding cunt that needs to be slapped before running a dick up my ass.So yeah,I hear ya!Do these people jus peruse profiles,looking for the perfect one to spout off to?Or has my profile so thoroughly provoked them that they cannot pass by without blasting from out-of-the-blue a total stranger?Hell,even jus the simple guy that tells me I'm fulla shit...they don't know me/they blow my mind/leave me shakin my head.THEN I BLAST BACK WITH BOTH BARRELS!!!HehHehHeh....!(Really-that was my reaction early on.Now I'm getting almost as much fun out of those types by doing the opposite...sending perky,sticky-sweet messages of thanks...these take MUCH less time to put together,and it's great when they write back all ???HUH????{{{{Don't let the assholes get ya down!}}}}

I used to be Snow White -- but I drifted. ~~~Mae West

bonnie765 31M/F
1 post
10/14/2005 2:14 pm

Although i'm significantly younger than you,reading your collection of blogs,i found myself relating to you on many levels!
Personally i don't understand why people (particually females) would spend so much time registering for this site, only to be completly rude and arrogant towards those who are genuinely interested in their profile?
Surely if you are so stunning and wonderful,to the extent you're above everyone else, you wouldn't need the aid of AdultFriendFinder.
You had every right to ask about this womans occupation,and her being so blatently rude in her response only makes one think that the whole internet dating scene, the oppertunity to connect with fellow beings, isn't bein taken litterally at all.

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