Still waiting?  

ladycyn1000 45F
35 posts
3/31/2006 11:37 am

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4/5/2006 12:17 pm

Still waiting?

I have talked to some emailed a few and tried like crazy to actually meet someone but maybe they are cautious like me and afraid of meeting that one crazy person or a complete freak. Yes it does happen that you can find all those jerks just lurking around waiting for that one person to let down their guard and then out comes the psycho.....I realize this is a sex and swingers site and am all into hooking up with the right people. See how I said the right people...not everyone is going to like my looks or click with my personality and hey even your past can really bite you in the ass too. So how do we get past all that and actually meet. I find meeting couples to be easier than just meeting a single female and I can totally understand. There is always the bait and switch thing too. So how to get past my own barriers? I guess I will just have to be working on that too. It is difficult for me because I do not like to IM and only being on line like once a week gets old but I do not know what other options are out there. Because I am not sure I am looking for anything other than a close friend or fuck buddy and other dating sites are all about long term. Does anybody know of an actually meeting place or club to join in my area? I am kind of old fashioned and like to actually see someones face while I am talking to them. After all the eyes are the doorway to the soul...or something like that...LOL....leave it to me to mess something up while I am chatting. Well to each happy hunting and hope you find what you are looking for. Wishing you lots of wet dreams, Cyn

ToolsMulesFaker 41M
163 posts
3/31/2006 1:36 pm

Try looking at your local groups most are helpfull and some organise meetups for just a meal or drink.. even if you only get some platonic friends that way they may know more of the local spots to go to and may even go with you as back up.

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