Whats the difference in men VS women's oral sex  

lady_on_fire 46F
498 posts
2/14/2006 7:58 pm

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Whats the difference in men VS women's oral sex


I have been into a lot of different message boards and several blogs. I just don't understand the double standard when it comes to oral sex.

Here is my point. This is for the women out there that might understand where I am coming from......

Have you ever been really into a man, the lustful kissing, intense fondling. And then you go down on him. Giving him unbelievable pleasure and making the moment even more intense. But when your done with his pleasure, he either plays things off and just wants to hold you, OR....he wants to "make love".

Wait just a minute fella.....why didnt' I get the same pleasure? See, oral is something to really be enjoyed. You have to want to do this and really get into it. Which i do, so I help to make my man feel good.

The reason for this blog is for the many men, ok some women..but my experience is with men. Just talking to them online or the phone and finding out their preferences...when i ask about oral it get this " Well, as long as your clean down there"......HELLO....how many men clean their dicks off before they come over to get it sucked??? Doubtful if many do. And I have done oral on some men that have a wretched odor down there. I guess I have learned to block it out.

I personally don't think i smell like roses down there, but regardless of what men think..I do keep it clean. As clean as you can considering.

I just feel this way about oral, and if you have read my blogs before you know this. If you can't give me what I want,then forget getting what you want. Its not going to happen.

The man i'm seeing now knows how to give oral, he's a master at his skill. I have met men that talk the talk, but few that can walk the walk. He feels bad when he can't keep it going for a long period of time. But he has my legs trembling after only 5 minutes. He's a man that wants to please.

Sexual gratification comes when at least 2 people can pleasure eachother. And they both get enjoyment out of the experience.

Ladyblue85 59F

2/14/2006 8:47 pm

Yep, know exactly what u mean. I've been told I give amazing b'j's, yet have had very few guys who do more than a few licks, and oh yeah, maybe jamming a few fingers inside me, "THEIR" version of going down on me. I can have a "mild" orgasm from kissing, nipples being sucked and str8 sex. Yet my deepest and best orgasms are when a guy really knows how to eat me! And that's when I can gush non-stop!! SNORKEL TIME! lol Like i told someone last month..... I have had a lot of sex since the fall, but haven't had a really good orgasm since July and late August, both were affairs with two different guys who I had deep feelings for. Perhaps the fact that we had more than bennie feelings for each other gave each guy the incentive to WANT to please me and take the time to watch me get off..... for a long time!
Yes, i too have met several guys who claim they are great at giving oral.... yet I lay there thinking, "Excuse me?? what the hell is that??" lol


TheLilFondler 34F
2576 posts
2/14/2006 8:59 pm

well said!!!! i agree totally

i lost my virginity years ago.....
but i still have the box.....


groomedpubes2 60M
106 posts
2/14/2006 9:33 pm

It happens in reverse too lady on fire. Many times in the past I have gone down on a woman first with the expectation that when I was done she would reciprocate. But noooooooooooo. I am a very clean person and I actually sweat a lot less than the average man. I lack the body oils that most people have.


FetedSpookVeils 68M

2/14/2006 9:53 pm

Lady On Fire said: "I personally don't think i smell like roses down there, but regardless of what men think..I do keep it clean. As clean as you can considering."

Babe, your own words say it all. You may be able to block out whatever wretched odor some men have (who don't keep themselves clean), but when you qualify your "cleanliness" with "As clean as you can considering.", then that pretty much tells everyone that men won't go down on you because you "think" you're clean when you are not.

Hun, men don't have stuff oozing out of their dicks all the time like women do from their pussies. A mild vaginal lubrication will create a foul odor after setting for a few hours. When a man's odor is wretched, that's a BIG problem, because it means he never cleans himself, and you are very likely getting a mouth full of fungus and bacteria going down on such a guy.

When a woman has a wretched odor, it may be "normal" for her, which is very unfortunate because she won't get many men to go near a wretched stink hole with their mouth and nose.

Or it could simply be a matter of needing to take a warm wet washcloth, and a dab of bath soap and do a little freshening up then rinsing off real well.

Either way, when a man makes up excuses to not go down on a woman, you can always bet that the woman's pussy does not pass the inspection of the nose, and so he doesn't want to chance feasting on a mouthful of fungus and bacteria.


yeatersupreme 46M
9 posts
2/15/2006 4:12 pm

Well i see its time for an expert opinion from a guy that has actually ate her pussy and let me tell all of u that she has the sweetest smelling and tasting pussy that i have eatin and i have a alot in my lifetime so mcm624 all your opinion means is that u show what most men r like when it comes to satisfing a women u guys r complete morons!!!!!! i have friends that r always talking about how they gets theres all the time well they and u probably couldnt hit it correctly if u had a baseball bat. and the last time i checked they dont make a doushes for men. u know a little soap and some powder with some cornstarch will help alot of u. maybe even try some colonge u know nice smells actually turn women on. so the best thing mcm624 and the rest of the morons can do is buy a detective book and get a clue and i will continue to do all of the satisfing and have all the blogs about me. so if u want some tips on how to pleasure a women dont be afraid to ask trust me there isnt enough of me to do all the satisfing any more i only have one to worry about now.


Ladyblue85 59F

2/16/2006 12:05 pm

Way to go Supreme.... thats telling them!! lol when i read MCM's comment the other day i about gagged!! a man giving a woman a lecture on bateria and fungus?? EWWWWWWWWWWWW! lol

Personally whenever i know, or expect to get me some lovin', i scrub EVERYTHING squeaky clean !! even had a comment from a guy or two that I smelled too clean, and wouldnt go down on me until they either manually stimulated me to orgasm or had str8 sex..... seems most men like the natural aroma of pussy! esp. one wet and waiting! lol


lady_on_fire 46F

2/16/2006 7:42 pm

I have some things to add.

First of all, I find it funny that a MAN has any input on mild vaginal lubrication. If your a clean person, its evident all the time. And when it comes to wretched odor in the mens department, honey...a little bit of sweat down there can cause odor.

Secondly,your comment about men making excuses about not performing oral meaning that WE didnt' pass the nose test. What the hell???
If you would have read down further you would have seen that I didn't mean just when your in person, but alot of men make excuses about oral BEFORE they even get to smell the pussy!!!! And i guarantee you dick doesn't smell all sweet and rosy either.

My point being.......once and again!!!

IF YOU WANT A WOMAN TO PERFORM ORAL ON YOU, THEN PLAN ON PERFORMING IT ON HER...THAT IS IF SHE WANTS IT.(WHICH, IF SHE'S HAD IT DONE RIGHT, I CAN'T IMAGINE HER TURNING IT DOWN.)

AND VISA VERSA.....WHATS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER.

PLEASE REFRAIN FROM CALLING WOMEN BABE OR HUN UNLESS YOU KNOW THEM PERSONALLY.

LADYBLUE.......I AGREE WITH U, I ABOUT GAGGED WHEN I READ HIS POST TOO.

YEATERSUPREME........THANK YOU FOR COMING TO MY DEFENSE SWEETIE.


rm_mntwin14 46M
3 posts
2/18/2006 6:25 am

I'm not sure where this post comes from. I love to give oral gratification. I enjoy it more than sex itself. When I first married my wife, it used to be part of my foreplay, now nothing. She will not let me go down, makes her feel dirty???? So any women that just want some attention please contact me.


rm_mntwin14 46M
3 posts
2/18/2006 10:54 pm

lady anytime you need some oral attention, please feel free to look me up. I'd love to make you tremble, with pleasure!!


yeatersupreme 46M
9 posts
2/20/2006 9:13 pm

dude u can move on to the next profile she isnt interested because i am making her tremble and we dont any help. thanks for understanding.


AughtLunchWreak 69M
2 posts
2/21/2006 8:21 pm

Well that's one on me Lady. Didn't know a real freak like you ever had a problem getting some extdended oral. Supreme seems to be scaring or attempting to scare everyone off. Where was he Valentines Day? If you need a change of pace in the near future, write and let me know. I'll perform until you get tired!


lady_on_fire 46F

2/22/2006 5:28 am

    Quoting AughtLunchWreak:
    Well that's one on me Lady. Didn't know a real freak like you ever had a problem getting some extdended oral. Supreme seems to be scaring or attempting to scare everyone off. Where was he Valentines Day? If you need a change of pace in the near future, write and let me know. I'll perform until you get tired!
Thanks for the invite,but I doubt I'll get tired of his performance. This blog was not written for his benefit trust me. He's not trying to scare anyone off,just stating a point.
I write my blogs to vent, sometimes write erotic stories. Something i enjoy doing. I am writing of my experiences and feelings.

So i'm a freak huh? NEver thought of myself as one. WOW.


falcon7789 69M

2/24/2006 6:11 am

Well as for me, I love giving a woman oral pleasure. For me, it is one of those ego things I guess. I just get off, feeling a woman tighten up, gush, and moan when she cums with my mouth completely on her pussy. I also love to hit the G spot at the same time. I feel if I can get a woman off several times over this way, it just gives her the feeling of complete exaustion, and she will want more. And I am usually assured of the favor being returned.


yeatersupreme 46M
9 posts
2/26/2006 8:58 pm

OKAY GUYS THIS IS HOW IT IS I AM NOT TRYING TO SCARE ANYONE OFF IF SHE WANTS TO MEET ANY OF U GUYS THAT IS HER BUSINESS. BUT SHE KNOWS WHAT I BRING TO THE TABLE AND ITS NOT A SO SO LOVER BUT A MAN THAT WILL DO ANYTHING FOR HER NOT JUST WANT A PIECE OF ASS FROM HER LIKE MOST OF THE MEN ON HERE. SO IF U THINK U CAN DO BETTER THEN GIVE IT YOUR BEST. I JUST WANT HER TO BE HAPPY.BUT I REALLY DONT THINK ANY OF THE FELLAS BEFORE ME WERE DOING THE JOB.AND BLKPIPE ON VALENTINES DAY SHE HAD HER CHILDREN SO WE DIDNT DO ANYTHING BECAUSE I RESPECT HER TIME WITH HER CHILDREN. AND YES SHE IS A FREAK A VERY GOOD ONE LOL AND SHE KNOWS IT AND SO DO I.


BeYourDaddy69 56M/56F

3/2/2006 10:48 am

Just to put my two cents in,I love to eat pussy. I'll eat my wife for as long as she wants or can handle it. Eating pussy is(to me) as enjoyable as having sex. Yea some may have a certain scent to them but, alot of times it just makes me hungrier(if you know what I mean).


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