koala_t 60F
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4/16/2006 3:56 am

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9/24/2006 9:17 am


Greetings! How many profiles make the statement that "foreplay is underrated?" I'm no mathematician, so I'll just swag and suggest that more than 25% of the men's profiles I've read state that. It seems that less than 10% walk the walk. Since my experience it limited (I haven't had dozens of lovers), my sample may not be statistically significant. Don't get me wrong, guys...I am not asking for a larger sample to prove/disprove my "theory!" I am just wondering what constitutes foreplay. Is it a kiss or two?...a little oral?...a feel?...a squeeze? NO! It is a combination of many things, beginning with talk, eye contact, touches, laughter, kisses, the seduction, more touches, nibbles, licking, more kisses, caresses...all of this long before you get naked, and many more after getting naked!


4/17/2006 9:51 am

Well I soposed, fore play is wide open for interpretation but my take is what she enjoy as well as what gets my partners motor runing,how ever is a give and take situation .
I enjoy kising long and wet liking and small pecks in the ear knose mouth, I actually give a girl an orgasm by just kising, it was awsom.
touching, where she ask or tells me. I truly enjoy pleasing my partner first how ever if you are in sink you just go with the flow, wow that probably is the best if and when it hapens.
I have not have good necking secion in a long time and I truly long for it.

koala_t 60F

4/18/2006 5:24 pm

I agree that the whole act is give and take, Erogood. I can't say I have ever had an orgasm from kissing, but that would be awesome!! Still searching for the one that actually is as into foreplay as I am.

SirMounts 103M

4/23/2006 1:32 pm

I agree in every way. For there is a thing called romance, that just makes everything else... come together, so very... well. *winking*
Welcome to blogging, koala. *smiling*

koala_t replies on 4/23/2006 7:08 pm:
Thanks for stopping by and for the welcome as well, SirMounts. Please explain...what is romance? It has been so darn long, I thought it was "so last week." ::giggles:: I'll bet there is a website - possibly the antithesis of AdultFriendFinder for that. You have to know someone to join, though. Took the liberty of checking out your profile. If I were 2 years older, I'd be chasing you.

rm_concierge112 56M

5/1/2006 9:43 pm

Well I agree completely. I think foreplay does involve contact, but certainly you can set moods with lighting and aromas and textures that really inspire a sensual situation so that does add a lot to the "romance" of situations. I believe foreplay is almost all touching of any kind be"fore" acual oral or penetration. I think those are actually more the acts of having sex. Can you re-initiate foreplay...absolutely! and again and again and...

I have not had a lot of lovers either, but I have found the longer you can hold off, sometimes MUST hold off, the more arousing it can be. Ever been in a semi-public situation, or kids nearby, when things start to get HOT. You cannot take clothes off because you cannot get them on again fast enough! You can only kiss and pinch and squeeze, and it is sooooo hard not to go forward. I think that can be awesomely exciting. Frustrating yes. I want her MORE, or realize I want her MORE. In those situations I think all of it is foreplay. I remember some of the hottest times just rubbing hard bodies against each other because we could not remove clothes and it just was great and natural.

Romance is a big area, lots can be done to create romance. More related to the non-touching senses maybe. Light, aromas, food, music, water, bedding, privacy, etc. Think of all those things used to create moods. And then words, notes, telling your partner what you are going to do to them hours ahead on a Friday (calling them on the phone, leaving messages when you could have spoken, messages no one else should hear) Just telling what to wear but leaving destinations a mystery. All sorts of things to do.

Like what you read? Hope so.

SirMounts 103M

5/15/2006 3:30 pm

Why, thank you so much for your very kind words, koala. *blushing*
And only two years would make the difference? Well, that's easy to fix. Why no raise your age by one year, and I'll lower Mine by one, too. I always like to meet wait a girl... right, in the middle. *smiling*

koala_t replies on 7/10/2006 10:06 am:
Yes, Sir...common ground is everything! Meeting in the middle would be one possible scenario

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