Is It Wrong?  

rm_kneel_be4me 50M
264 posts
6/5/2006 6:01 am

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6/5/2006 7:35 am

Is It Wrong?

My ex wife just emailed me telling about how she was in the hospital all week end with pneumonia. And how they sent her home with a nebulizer to take treatments on her own every three hours over the next four days... She then tells me she is willing to do whatever it takes to get better before the week end because all of her friends have planned a trip to the keys for the week end and there is no way she will miss it... That is she is choosing to go party in the keys with her friends over spending time with her kids... She then goes on to tell me that she is going no matter what, and if she is going to die then the keys would be the place to die.

Now is it wrong for me to actually think about or wish that it would actually happen? To think about what it would be like if she were actually gone? What the kids would have to go through?

I wouldn't want my kids raised without a mother... but at the same time I have to consider what is worse them being raised without a mother or them being raised with a mother that just sees or cares for them when its convenient for her.

rm_shaveclean2 58M/44F
691 posts
6/5/2006 7:03 am

All those emotions are quite normal....So no it's not Wrong. Just as long as you keep those mean thoughts to yourself and Not act on it! Besides you are irritated NOW....but you won't always be and You have not always been!! Good Luck!

g the female 1/2 of Shaveclean2


rm_kneel_be4me 50M
457 posts
6/5/2006 7:35 am

    Quoting Frnds4Play:
    What you need to do is ask yourself this: "How would you feel if she went on the trip and something happened and she did die". Kat
Actualy it wouldnt bother me at all... The only thing that would sadden me about it is my kids being raised without a mother... but with how she cares for them I dont really know if that is a bad thing or not.

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