honesty in advertising  

klovau 49F
21 posts
9/1/2006 7:46 pm

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11/26/2006 4:00 pm

honesty in advertising

I would like to clear the air here and maybe get a little feed back...

I have been off and on this sight for about a year now and it seems that I am being taken in the wrong way. I have clearly posted on my profile that men who don't know how to treat a woman should keep moving to another profile. I am on this sight because I am a very, very sexual woman. I have learned from past experience that, even if every other facet of a relationship is perfect, if the sex isn't worth thinking about, or it doesn't give you a little shiver, then the rest is bound to fail.

Hence, AdultFriendFinder. I figured that if I clearly posted what I was looking for that this is what I would receive. Do guys or girls for that matter even look at the profile or is this second grade where we are just looking at the pics. I don't want to sound like a bitch, but I am getting offer after offer that sounds like... " Hey, I will be in town and I wanna fuck, do you?" My answer is, "Yes, I want to fuck and suck and lick and play and do all the other things I posted as a turn-on to me." Just not with every freakin guy passing through Albany.

Am I crazy or are the guys on this sight under the impression that we are desperate women who wait with baited breathe?? Maybe some are and maybe that is what they are looking for. Hint: you can usually find out if you read the profile.

Please let me know if I am completely off base here as the input is greatly appreciated.

rm_smosmof2 68M
3240 posts
9/1/2006 9:02 pm

no, it's just that the guys who write you that shit are so desperate that they'll try anything to score, and never understand why they get ignored. The place is full of asses and ignoramuses.

The good people live too far away from Albany to do you any good...

avgcple61 56M/57F  
23 posts
9/1/2006 10:52 pm

I agree that there are a lot of jerks on AdultFriendFinder and it seems that there are a lot of men that can't read or at least don't bother to read. However, it sounds like you are looking for something that you are not likely to find on the largest swinger's website in the world. Really, I'm not trying to defend these jerks on here, but I did read your profile. Maybe you would have been luck finding a serious relationship that isn't all about sex on another site. Then after you start the relationship you can, "fuck and suck and lick and play and do all the other things" that you post as a turn on.
Good luck in any case.

klovau 49F

9/2/2006 10:34 am

Thank you for the input avgcple... I have been on the average dating sights and have been left wanting. I have been to the pubs and social gatherings and for some reason when you say, "so, do you own a flogger??" they either look at you like you have three heads or they think they have scored for the evening or run from you screaming!!" Not the case!!!

My schedule is crazy busy as I am a business woman and I have a family so this is a nice late night search for what I may not have time for otherwise.

Beside, I think I have found exactly what I was looking for off the sight... I have only seen him twice but he is just as twisted as me!! WOOOOO HOOOOO!! Keep your fingers crossed for me ok??

LapelVisesSorer 45M

9/2/2006 5:29 pm

I agree on what you are saying even as a single guy thats lookin to have fun . Dont go being an a.. hole and thinking that every hot woman on here is just looking to have sex. There is more to making a friend then going for the sex. I like to get to know that person a bit before even thinking of sex it adds to the fun of the friendship ur trying to make. So what I'm sayin is read the damn profile not just the pics, hey were ADULTS here so lets act it and have fun. Thank Klovau.

carrot15 46M

9/3/2006 8:24 am

hey, I'm sorry you had to put up with all the jerks on this site but I'm glad you found the "twisted" individual you were looking for!

Absurdaholic 48M

9/3/2006 9:31 pm

Sorry you've met some losers. A lot of folks are here for the wrong reasons, and it's sad that they really do seem to have no real idea of how to interact like a human being. Part of it I guess is being able to hide behind a screen name and have no real repurcussions to their actions. Who knows? Maybe it's some element of a fanatsy being lived out online?

Anyway, so I'll be in town and...just kidding!

Though you are attractive, and won't need it, good luck! I hope you find what you need. I wish I lived closer or I'd at least try not to make too big an ass of myself for you. But I'm lke an hour away...and I seem to be an aquired taste or something.

outdoorman94 49M

9/8/2006 9:22 am

I wouldn't say your completely off base here.I mean it's nice to know that people are for real and that not every one is an advertisemnt.I see alot of this out here and find it very hard to make contact with a women knowing mosat times it's another ad.So not thinking of every one passing through albany but how about someone close to it!

insolevisa 63M
13 posts
9/8/2006 7:24 pm

You have to remember/understand that these men THINK they know how to treat a lady. Self-delusion is the sincerest form of flattery. They make the assumption that the women here are "desperate" or nymphos or whatever fits their need, and act accordingly. You're correct: they look at your pic and read your vitals and send off a note. Its a shotgun approach - send enough letters and someone will bite.
What can you do? Just what I assume you are doing - ignore them, laugh at their ignorance, and go on with your search. There are decent people on here, people who know themselves, what they want and aren't ashamed to ask for it.

hunybear1969 48F

9/12/2006 10:54 am

I posted almost the exact same thing on my blog! I love sex. I'm very sensitive and multi-orgasmic BUT I'm not hopping in the sack every time someone says hi. Great post. Hopefully some of these guys will start reading posts.

soldierboy12061 50M
44 posts
9/13/2006 11:19 am

Any guys who doe snot take the 4 or 5 minutes to read all about a women would be better off just going to a bar and looking to get lucky.

It is common sense and common respect that you would read someones profile before contacting them!

As for guys who are just passing through and looking to jump in the sack, they should just open the phone book and contact an escort service.

I have never had any women email me and ask me do I want to fuck?, and I'm sure I would say yes......after all, I'm still a guy , but if you got one of those, I would just add them to my blocked list. That would surely send a message.....or better yet, two can play those games.....tell him sure, give him a place and time to meet, and then just not show......send him home with blue balls for being so rude!

rm_cameraguy123 59M
3 posts
9/16/2006 5:48 pm

I've had women on this site email me and ask me if I wanted to fuck that afternoon - repeatedly! (Of course, it usually came with an offer to switch to an off-site enter your credit card to see my even more exclusive pics, lol... )... and then on the other hand... the want to meet me and get to know me... and my mother (I can't make this stuff up)...

One thing that does come into plat is the unequal palying field: I'm offf of paying status right now so I'm not viewing profiles - i just have a dozen or so 'friends' I think I remember from the thumbnail foto and a few chats here and there ... until the next time I jump back into the Albany scene and drop my credit card into this site...


rm_smk18 50M
1 post
9/20/2006 12:21 pm

Hi Klovau, we spoke over a year ago via IM, a very pleasant experience . I have not been around this place much..when I was ?..I have found liars and misreperesentation from the females as well.

I did meet a few outstanding women, the others? were not the women in their pictures nor were they even close to the physical appearance they described. The one lady who was by no means physically attractive -(her words not mine), made the the strongest impression upon me, I fell in love with her instantly! her heart, her passion and honesty.
The ones who have been straight forward with me?.. I gave them the respect and treated them like a lady --even though we no see each other that much? we are still friends.

klovau sorry to hijack your blog , I read what you wrote..and it was very good!.

manyorgasms4uoo 49M

9/29/2006 5:54 pm

let my name say it love play and all that goes with it

hard_man76 53M

10/12/2006 7:04 am

good comment i am in albany area and looking for same thing as u but long term not 1 night................=====

rm_licker13512 66M
1 post
11/18/2006 1:29 am


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