kitz6 61F
1045 posts
4/7/2006 10:54 pm

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4/12/2006 8:16 pm


The short answer to the question "Why are you here?" is "None of your business." This is especially true if you are not going to become involved with them. You have no need to know. Please refrain from asking. Simply put No Married Persons on your profile and then ignore anyone foolish enough to email you. If you are going to become involved with them, then it might be nice to know but really it is the married person's problem, not yours. Married persons should identify themselves up front as being married so potential partners know where they stand and how to behave. Married persons should also refrain from contacting those who do not wish to play with them. Married persons should also conduct their affairs properly to minimize the potential for damages. We all have our reasons for being here.

warmandsexy52 65M
13164 posts
4/7/2006 11:30 pm

Very true kitz. Our histories, needs and expectations on this friendly site are so diverse. Games of pretence at best waste people's time, and being married is no more an issue than being single - just a different set of needs and expectations.

warm xx

sharewus2 41M/33F

4/8/2006 1:19 am

well put, as always, ma'am

bryanwithawhy 66M
8 posts
4/8/2006 3:56 am

I quite agree with your point of view kitz. If you can't be honest and upfront with people on this site then you shouldn't be here. A profile should contain enough information about that person to allow others form a truthful opinion about them before they try to make contact.

kitz6 61F

4/8/2006 8:30 am

ty ty ty

Yes I do know about the 'double standard' here re: the treatment of married women vs that given to married men but do not let that deter you. Some people may have issues with it but that is THEIR problem.

seek_u_topia 52M

4/8/2006 9:24 am

so true...

Phineas2005 49M
854 posts
4/8/2006 12:12 pm

Ane there is always THE neighbor....

gentlecuddles 68M
1 post
4/10/2006 6:43 pm

Sometimes we don't know what we want. All we know is that once a month isn't good enough. I'm married. I'm not even sure sex is what I want. Maybe I just want to be wanted.
Maybe I just want to relive my firsts - the first meeting (date), the first time our hands touch, the first time our lips meet, etc.
I am the happiest when I know I've satisfied the partner. But what do you do when your partner does not want to be satisfied?????????

kitz6 replies on 4/11/2006 7:03 am:
According to most on this site, you divorce your partner and get another one as if tossing out a relationship of some years simply because you aren't getting any is honorable.

Perchance2000 58M

4/12/2006 9:59 am

and then you toss out again, and again, and again?

What fallacy in the logic of the majority . . .

kitz6 replies on 4/12/2006 8:18 pm:
Very very true. An open relationship requires maturity, understanding and trust. So long as one is considerate of one's primary relationship all should be well.

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