The cheater gene.....  

kitchenfun1234 45M
2103 posts
5/24/2006 3:00 pm

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8/2/2006 10:55 am

The cheater gene.....


OK, so some of you may have read my previous entry regarding the teaser gene.
Well what about guys that cheat on their wives with men or women......?
Do you think that weak minded cheats can be said to have inherited this behavior from their ancestors.
Personally I don't think there's anything wrong with having many lovers so long as....
(a) All parties are single.
(b) Safe sex applies always.

Today I was chatted-up by a guy on another popular site......nothing unusual in that cos they try it all too often.
Incidentally I go there to keep in touch with some old friends I got when I went through my student years. I've changed since then but i don't give up old friends......

However this one guy irritated me because he admitted that he goes hunting for gay sex but is "happily married".
WTF!!!!! So some poor woman is being cheated on.....that's just plain wrong. I don't call that a happy marriage......I call that a sham.
Why not admit to her what he is.....and get everything out in the open. It omes to something when a 55 year old man can not continue a text web chat.....a clean chat at that.......when his wife comes in with a mug of tea.....!!!

I suggested he come clean with her and perhaps try AdultFriendFinder.......he quit the conversation again.

I hope i don't run into him and his wife around town. Because if I do I'm not sure I can hold my tongue.......

Don't ever give up searching for the fun in life.


rm_ADUDE35 48M/48F
2 posts
8/1/2006 1:18 pm

you need to remember nothing or no one is perfect! can you love someone with all your heart even if they don't share the exactly the same sexual preferences and are not accepting of your so called unconvention desires? i think it is possible. and at the same time i don't understand your desire to hurt this guy. i guess your just venting a little which is understandable as us married guy's can be a real pain in the you know what


kitchenfun1234 replies on 8/2/2006 10:57 am:
I have no time for guys that deliberately cheat on their wives. The wife is hurt and he puts her at risk of catching HIV etc because this particular chap likes to bareback.
I think it's one thing to admit to your wife that you don't love her and want men. It's quite another thing to keep her for the sake of sex when noone else will have you. He's living a lie and putting innocent people at risk.

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