Getting started  

kewlbeanz4fun 49M
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7/3/2006 2:56 am

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Getting started

I have begun this to put down thoughts and discuss relevant ideas. One of which is that Love is Love and Lust is Lust. My belief, which I see the counter point of my wife, is that sex is just sex. A primal urge that needs to be fulfilled. However, love means you are willing to die for that special someone.

The counterpoint is that if your spouse or significant other, does not feel that way and is not into open relationships, then you must respect that and keep within the bounds that your love has set. With that logic I cannot argue.

What are your thoughts?

kewlbeanz4fun 49M

7/30/2006 7:07 am

Ok, so our social experiment continues. We each think we have found the one we want to be with outside our bedroom. It is such a fun yet challenging state of mind to be in. I am amazed at the range of emotions you go through when you initial venture this path.

As a man there are times of jeaoulsy about sharing my wife and My Goddess feels the same thing. But then, we talk about it and the excitement and prospect of having someone new helps to quel that primitive emotion and supplants it with a deeper primitive drive.

I look forward to the day that the actualization of all this fantasy takes place, for both of us. In the end I just hope that no one gets hurt, and I mean for all that are involved. There is enough pain in the world and no need for anymore.

I am confident it will all work out in the end. I really see no need for jealousy are contempt. The only real challenge I have is if my choice never pans out, finding a suitable friend that I can enjoy. AdultFriendFinder is a cock-fest. You girls have your pick of the litter. Kind of makes the average Joe feel inadequate.

Ahh that's BS. The right one is out there. I am a good lokking individual that is intelligent, fun and charming. It is only a matter of time I guess. I do laugh though as I watch my goddess open her account and see the deluge of email she gets. Some of the lines these guys use, OMG, DUDE! what are you thinking?!

Women expect and demand a gentleman's approach and a bad boy in the sack. All women should be treated with dignity and respect, no matter what their profile says. And that too is a big concern for me. I don't want some a-hole hurting Goddess and treating her like some piece of meat, she isn't! She deserves respect and adoration. I trust her judgment on that. Woe be unto them that hurt or mistreat her.

Well gonna end this entry for now and work on something else. Unitl next time.

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