erotic chat/email - fun or annoying????  

kerrydelicious 51F
15 posts
4/23/2006 3:20 pm

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erotic chat/email - fun or annoying????

what do people really want when they say they are after "erotic chat or e-mail". For me this means some seriously sexy swapping of desires, fantasies and general saucy chat - so why do some message and just say "wanna see my cock"? LOL

meerkittykat 43F

4/23/2006 4:27 pm

kerry-because single men on this site have the odds against them, so they throw a zillion repsonses in hopes of getting one; so there's no time for any romancing

However, sometimes one will actually say something interesting and thought provoking; even funny. Those are the cool ones.


kerrydelicious replies on 4/24/2006 1:36 pm:
not had many of them!!!!

chasingfun27 39M
1108 posts
4/23/2006 4:29 pm

I know what you mean. I've become convinced that people just tick the boxes without giving it any thought whatsoever. I love exchanging erotic emails but it seems that bugger all other people do.

kerrydelicious replies on 4/24/2006 1:42 pm:
well I LOVE erotic emailing so go ahead!!!! xxx

chasingfun27 39M
1108 posts
4/23/2006 4:33 pm

merekittykat is basically right on the money there. We do, on occasion however, try to restrain ourselves.

kerrydelicious replies on 4/24/2006 1:45 pm:
ha ha if some of the pics I have been sent are from restrained chaps then I'd hate to see them in full swing!!! xxxxx

sexplease714 37M

4/23/2006 4:54 pm

It's annoying. I want the real thing.

sexplease714 37M

4/23/2006 4:55 pm

Ausome boobs kerry! (boing!)

rm_HDWoody1 45M
65 posts
4/23/2006 10:17 pm


I would rather have the real thing,

kerrydelicious replies on 4/24/2006 1:46 pm:
and would you ask nicely for it or wade in waving your cock arond looking pleased with yourself!!! Much beter to ask nicely xxxxx

KevenMary 60M/47F
6 posts
4/25/2006 8:51 am

Gentle men ,gentlemen, gentlemen, Mary and I are always looking for a young man to delite Mary but she is a woman looking for a special love not some boaster. Someone that can only turn a phrase with a shovel will never attract a married woman to your bed. Read their profiles carefully then use that knowledge to write a sweet and sensual letter.The cock picks are ok if you don't chopper your head off because you're afraid that your aunt Ethel might be cruising the site. If you just put yourself on the profile instead of sending it, it would allow the girls to have a choice of whether or not to check out your picture. Believe me if your words are attractive to her she will check out your endowments.

kerrydelicious replies on 4/25/2006 3:20 pm:
EXACTLY!!!!!! actually read the profile and reply accordingly, so much betterthan a crap one liner or (worse still) those awful standard paragraphs that some folk send to all and sundry, including Aunt Ethel! xxx

SirMounts 103M

4/27/2006 3:18 am

Well, I would guess that they are getting enough of a positive response, to continue to do it. *winking*
Welcome to blogging, kerrydelicious. *smiling*

rm_HDWoody1 45M
65 posts
4/28/2006 12:26 am

Ask Nicely for sure!!![/SIZE]

masterdiver1978 39M
6 posts
5/16/2006 1:32 am

Hi kerry know what you mean about single males!!! Im finding it hard to meet any females to have some fun with. I cant reply to emails so if you would like to talk to me could we start through here?

masterdiver1978 39M
6 posts
5/29/2006 6:19 am

Hi, thought i would try again! Im 27 from plymouth and currently at uni. I am single, fun to be with and loooking to please you in anyway i can. please please please get back to this! Martin

justme3127 62M
2 posts
6/19/2006 2:22 pm

usually because they are desperate look upon women as just sex objects and have no other turn of phrase or any idea of what a woman wants

rm_moonraker9 51M
4 posts
6/20/2006 4:22 pm

I suppose one of the above comments is right. Men are mostly just treating this as a numbers game. Post enough and get some. The fantasy side of it is good, though. Would love to exchange some sexy ideas with you. Not easy as a standard member. May have to go Silver! Any fantasies you'd like to share with us?

rm_jasfox 56M
41 posts
12/27/2006 12:01 am

Hi Kerry!

Well you've prompted some interesting responses there!

KevenMary have got it spot on - as you say! It's easy to read a profile and respond accordingly. I can't understand why men don't bother!

I also can't see the point in joining this site and remaining as a Standard Member. If men wish to attract women, I think they should spend the money on the right type of account, and use the benefits provided. A lady will appreciate the effort expended, and a few well chosen words - based on her profile preferences - will usually illicit a responde. Even a polite "no thanks" helps, as this provides experience and maybe suggests a better way to approach a lady next time.

Cock shots are fine, but words are the first thing to attract potential fun partners.

So chaps (if you're still reading this!), think on, and choose your words carefully!

Hope you're ok Kerry babe!

J xx

rm_007justme 41M
5 posts
12/28/2006 10:14 am

I think most men want as much as possible with as little as possible in terms of effort trying to get it.

Its a shame really cause it can affect alot of us genuine guys when we contact the ladys/couples ....

I have always thought and worked by this little saying, you get out of life, what you put into it.

Its the same when trying to meet ladys on here, if you try a little then it goes a long way. Just saying want to see my cock, or hi, want a shag? is a little bit pathetic i think!

Like the previous fella also said... why join a site like this and not pay a little bit of money to get the full benefits and then perhaps be taking a little more seriously???

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