Young Men and Mature Women  

keithcancook 61M
11107 posts
3/24/2005 6:49 am
Young Men and Mature Women

In the short time I have been on this site I have noticed more than a few young men complaining that older women are giving them the brushoff. These males admittedly are 18 - 20 years old; the extreme bottom of the age range for this site. I want to weigh in with my opinion on this matter.

I believe that it is not the youthful vigour of their lovemaking that captures a mature woman's fancy as much as it is the ability to stimulate her on a mental plane. Certainly there are many women who lust after young dicks, but in the end they probably discover that it is not as good as the more total experience she recieves from a more worldly and mature man who is older.

I feel that the mental stimulation serves as a catalyst for the physical experience and more than makes up for any loss of vigour as a man gets older.

geg027 38M
8 posts
3/24/2005 9:34 am

I Guess true that u have to find someone with who u have chemistry and a connection with and perhaps u find that easier with someone closer to ur own age. If u want a lover who can communicate with on a similar level then perhaps u should talk to these young guys and find out. Other than that its many guys fantasy to bve with an older and more experienced woman and i guess alot of people are looking to experience new things and fulfill there fantasies whatever thay might be. Saying that im not totally in agreement that mental stimualation comes b4 physical attraction. Im not sure these things have a guaranteed and set formula and thats probably the most exciting thing about seeing and meeting new people. A fantastic sexual relationship probably cant really exist without a mental, emotionl and physical connection. When those things coincide the chemistry can be intense and passionate.

Merry49 62F

3/24/2005 9:35 am

I've had two experiences with men 20+ years younger than me here at A.F.F., against my better judgement. One was forgettable, the other quite regretable. For me, a 49-year-old woman, 35-49 is the age range that catches my attention the easiest. But definitely, the best lovers I've met here were/are in their early 40s. I'd never consider meeting an 18-year-old, heck, my great nephews are almost that old! lol

Random1962 56F

3/24/2005 12:12 pm

I'll take a mature man over a young stud any day. The sex with a young man might be great but that's all there is. No life experiences to hold even a nominal friendship together. And a man young enough to be my son??? EEWWW. Smacks of something I' rather not go into....

geg027 38M
8 posts
3/25/2005 1:15 am

I guess u have to know urself what kind of guys u are attracted to and such but it would be nice for people to speak from experience rather than these sweeping generalisations.
No life experience? Im pretty sure i have more to offer someone than just being someones shag piece. Judge us as individuals and try to talk to as and u might be pleasantly suprised. im sure there are plenty of guys ur own age that have no life experience and are incapable of having the most basic of friendhips.

keithcancook 61M
18138 posts
3/25/2005 5:40 am

Right you are geg and no knocking anyone for their age is intended. Certainly every individual has their own life experiences and everyone has something to offer. But generalization is necessary for the subject matter of this thread. For individual praises browse the profiles...

mnfun952 103M

5/13/2005 6:15 pm

My Hovercraft has Eels...and other nonesense. Age shouldn't make a big difference...but, when you ask a younger woman about John Lennon and she says, "who?" then you know you're in trouble.

expatbrit49 64M

6/17/2005 5:11 pm

Ah ha so it took you four posts to get your first comment..... not bad, maybe I have underrated you my friend, off to find when I first commented.

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

keithcancook 61M
18138 posts
6/19/2005 9:04 am

I certainly am blessed with wonderful friends. expat ol pal, you are ok in my book mate! Candysoveryverysweet, you float my boat honey...

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