If your not happy then just leave.  

justicelovely321 31F
49 posts
9/11/2006 12:22 pm

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10/22/2006 7:06 pm

If your not happy then just leave.

I really have to question the morals of people now a days. Has the concept of marriage just deminished ignored? When you say your vows does that include until you do something I dont like?
Men on here just ignore the fact that there married just to get some ass. Please, you said in those vows to remain faithful, why compromise it? If you don't like what you have gotten yourself into then I strongly suggest that you have a long talk to your wife about your problems, not the mistress, not the guy down the street, not a bottle of alcohol, her your wife. I can guarentee that the bottle, the guy down the street and your mistress really don't wanna here about how you have been cheating on your wife because she isnt as horny anymore.
I mean come on, its pathetic. I pity those men and women who just abuse the concept of marriage and a relationship. Stop emailing me, you have a wife that you can fuck everyday if you just sit down and talk with her ok. It is as simple as that, and if you don't feel like talking to her or fixing your problems, then stop the marriage. Don't cause her more heartache because you dont have the balls to be a "Man" with a capital "M"

PailsDiverHonks 56F

9/11/2006 12:31 pm

Until you have walked in a married mans or married females shoes you will never understand...

Greeneyesatl05, married and cheating

2daycowboywanted 46F

9/11/2006 12:39 pm

Well, lets hope that you are feeling way better now!

Until later

VCF1962 106F

9/11/2006 12:49 pm

Sorry greeneyes - that's a pitiful excuse, work at it or walk. Let the spouse move on to someone that actually cares about them instead. Let them have some life instead of sneaking around.

Mistress Innuendo
Taking what you say and turning it into something naughty !!

rm_saintlianna 46F
15466 posts
9/11/2006 12:55 pm

you have a wife that you can fuck everyday if you just sit down and talk with her ok. It is as simple as that

Actually, its not. It could be many reasons why they wont/cant, and just dont respond to the married ones if thats not your thing.

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
9/11/2006 1:08 pm

married and cheating and its not so black and white i wish it were

I'm a

i'm here to stay

rm_Endowed1052 61M
7 posts
9/11/2006 1:17 pm

If you are so moral like that what the fuck you are paying money to be on this site. The problem is Morality is just a rubber ban and any ass whole can stretch it to fit their ass whole purpose. I love variety of women and my goal is to satisfy them and get satisfied sexually. Sex is the ultimate pleasure in life. I think you should join a church instead of AdultFriendFinder. But watch the priest might fuck you in your bottom. They love that especially if you are young. Actually you are mentally disturbed woman to come on a site like that to breach.

justicelovely321 31F

9/11/2006 1:19 pm

I dont respond to them at all. But I just cant believe how many people are on here that are married, its quite scary. How hard is it to actually talk about the problem anyway? What are they scared of?

rm_kacrab 36M

9/11/2006 1:25 pm

I think Im gonna have to agree with Justice on this one.. I mean its just morally wrong to fuck around on your spouses back and I understand what saintlianna says it could be many reasons why it doesnt work out but thats no excuse to fuck around. What if you have kids in the picture and you well planned and organized affair gets revealed, the kids suffer.. I havent been married so I know I lack the experience and havent gone through the trials that marriage brings, BUT, I have been cheated on a few times and married or not, its one of the worst fucking feels you can experience. And that does not make me want to do that to another person. Look at what happened here in Houston a while back.. The guy was a doctor or a dentist, i cant remember, anyway he was cheating on his wife and she followed him one night at some hotel and ended up plowing her car through him and killing him. Now the kids have no father, the father is six feet under, and the kids are mentally scarred for the rest of their lives.. Is all of that really worth fucking someone else?

yellowfever33 53M
270 posts
9/11/2006 1:26 pm

OK - 2cents more.
I was married and I agree with Justice. Its not the easiest thing to do but you did make a commitment to someone. It may be difficult and expensive and even change the standard of living you are accustomed to...but if you are sneaking abound behind someone's back - you are causing extra and unnecessary pain...in the long run. Just stand up and be honest about your feelings and desires. I could think about it when I was married but I could never actually DO anything - which is almost as bad. Unfaithful in mind or body is still unfaithful and will cause hurt.

lonehubby50 62M
18 posts
10/18/2006 8:57 am

You said it yourself in your other blog post. There is love, sex, and fucking. I love my wife with all my heart, but sometimes somethings happen that don't allow for the full benefits of that kind of relationship. Women around my wife's age deal with the changes they are going through differently. I try to be understanding of her situation, because I went through a time that I couldn't have sex because of a health issue. Unfortunately mine ended about when hers started. Trust me, after a FEW YEARS you miss the intimacy. But that doesn't make you love your mate any less.

Afterall, to paraphrase what you have said; Somtimes you just need some sex.

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