Maybe I am not cut out for this  

just_mellanee 30F
47 posts
6/27/2006 1:58 pm

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10/7/2008 5:07 pm

Maybe I am not cut out for this

OK I am beginning to think maybe Mels is not cut out for the online hook up crap. DO people play around and "keep their options open" while trying to convince you that you are all that and more? I am not just saying guys do it because I am damn sure women do it too but not this girl. If I find something I am interested in that is where my attention goes and I pretty much just let any other "options" go by the way side. Guess I fooled myself to believeing that someone could actually be that way with me. As you can tell I found someone I was interested in and found out that he might be interested in me but that has not slowed his interest in other people down. Oh well maybe its for the best I found out now. Before I met him and got really into him on other levels. Here I am thinking i am semi smart and yet I am so stupid. Someone maybe a little smarter and older than me warned me just the other day about guys. Maybe I should have listened to him. Ok so the Mels is flirt with every guy and devide from there whom I wantt to spend my time with and at least if that does not work out I have my options open!


fitnessguy919 43M

6/27/2006 6:14 pm

hey what happened?


rm_Jbax29388 36M

7/8/2006 8:08 pm

damn girl, sorry but assholes are everywhere, hope you won't stop giving guys a chance to prove they are a cut above the rest, you never know the one that you pass up might be just like you.


NotInnocentNow 35F
2 posts
7/19/2006 9:17 pm

Chin up babydoll. The right guy will come along, emphasis on guy not a bunch of them. Stick with it and stay strong. DOn't take any crap because you are way worth more then most of these guys have to give!


yahtzee09 32M

7/21/2006 3:19 pm

hey i'm sorrry that happened but i've always felt if u don't put yourself out there and take a chance then u will never know if it could have worked and that is the risk u take with putting your felings on the table so pick yourself up and realize that if they don't want u the way u want them the leave them because u r beautiful and someone will want u the way u want them u just have to keep putting yourself out there and with time he will come


rm_TaxManForYou 69M
1 post
7/27/2006 1:02 pm

I have always been told that us men were DOGS. I find as I get older that seems to be true with so many in this world. just remember to keep your options open and always remember to be YOU. a flirt are you? well I find nothing wrong with flirting with those arond you. especially with not attached to someone. besides sure as hell makes me feel good.


drowning_slowly 31M

7/29/2006 9:53 pm

hey well im sorry about all those other guys that are assholes but you have to think that there might be someone out there that really likes you enough that they would srop all other interests to be with you. I really like you and all and think that you have everything worked out but if you change then its all fucked up. see there is alot of things wronge with these people on here but you have to look at the brighter side. I think your really cool and payed attention to you and waited for you to reply cuz i thout you wre amazing but you never replyed so if thats how it is then thats all good but dont complain since the first guy you wanted to meet was a sleezeball. well later


SingleWarrior 53M

8/8/2006 9:07 pm

Hi.


philytransplant4 64M
2 posts
12/8/2006 10:30 am

HEY THERE,
SORRY ABOUT HOW YOU WERE TREATED. GUESS THAT IS WHY HONESTY IS A BIG FACTOR. HOPE YOU ARE DOING OK AND HAVE NOT GIVEN UP ON ALL OF US. SOME OF US FEEL THE SAME WAY YOU DO BUT UNTIL THAT LITTLE SPARK STARTS A SMALL FLAME IT IS HARD TO COMMIT.


rm_spiff33 50M

2/18/2007 8:13 am

Hey Mels,
Just read your blog. I am sorry you were treated that way. I am older to and i have seen a lot on this site. I have a bunch of friends in my network and you know something. For the most part you may have friends there but they hardly speak. AdultFriendFinder will not let me delete them.lol!! Every guy on here is not the same. However once you have one bad esperiance then it puts up a red flag whether or not to trust others. I will tell you though that there is plenty of women on this site that like to play with peoples kindness also. I am a true person so if you ever care to chat just let me know. Have a good day and I apologize for the way some people treat you and others on this site. you seem to be a nice person.


RoDaMo 38M

5/17/2007 2:36 pm

I think people tend to keep all their options open because they feel that everyone else is as well. I could be wrong, I don't know what happened in your situation. Just do what feels right.


knighthawk789456 39M/34F
36 posts
7/2/2007 5:06 pm

Pretty old blog so I'll hold off on any observations on your posted quandary but given that you've been active recently you obviously haven't unplugged.

How about an update post? You seem like someone the wife and I would like to touch base with.


bird5978 38M
36 posts
7/22/2007 8:32 pm

You are quite perfect I to like your sweetheart

平凡無奇不是愛 橫刀奪愛才是愛

千軍萬馬我直往 你爭我奪愛才來


horny196364 54M

9/28/2008 7:42 am

love that hot ass of yours


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