Survived Monday!  

jussweetlilolme 44F
84 posts
2/20/2006 4:44 pm

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Survived Monday!

Monday was not the pain I had thought it may be...actually today is a pretty damn good day all n all.

Had a few friends drop me emails to say that life was finally treating them well, a few others bid farewell as they are off to other Countries to start their new lives, and well, for me, it seems like there may be a few more opportunities to this whole "life thing" than I thought.

*question for the day, if you don't find a person attractive physically, but intellectually they are awesome, would you date them anyways?*

~me, I would have to say yes, but that is because I am a very intellectual person who enjoys the stimulation of deep and horizon broadening conversations. To me the ability to converse outweighs the physical factors. Additionally, it is nice to be cute, but stupid & cute will drive me nuts before we'd have a chance to even hang out. *no patience in this area * (stupid people arena)

Have a good night everyone!!

~Sweets


bjxxx42 61M

2/20/2006 9:24 pm

I'd have to have that intellectual connection with them to want to date them anyway. If I don't have the least bit of feeling of being on their same mental wavelength I'm honestly not interested in them as a romantic partner.


iowa_mustang_man 56M
44 posts
2/21/2006 11:39 am

well there are time when it's nice to just be out and about with others welll it is for me anyway, i love to go out to eat or to a good movie the prob is to find anyone other then one of my kids to go out with, and at 18 and 19 they have there own lives and for two boys dad seems to cramp there stile, LOL so would i go out with some one just as friends hell yeah i would love it no worries or judgements on if i look great hey i am not a bad looking man but what i have is all i have to work with, LOL and being up here for just 4 years now i have not met meny from around here so that tends to keep me at home most of the time, well with that said i guess i would say go for it, i would, time spent is never time lost so go have fun and just relax you just mite find a new friend along the way


jussweetlilolme 44F

2/21/2006 2:09 pm

well are you both the nicest guys ever? Oh, now I see the common trait, you both are a little older, with a head on your shoulders oh, and are realistic.

While a physical attractiveness is nice, and eventually will factor in to the relationship, it is more important to remember what Iowa-mustang said so well, "what I have is what I have..." Very truthful.

That and I am what I am, so don't try to change me...well okay, that one might get you into trouble...but still...

~Sweets


iowa_mustang_man 56M
44 posts
2/22/2006 8:10 am

well sweet lady older is better along with age we also have learned how to treat a lady, so just becouse my age is a bigger number it doesn't meen i am dead by any meens, it just shows that i have learned the fine art of respect, now as far as trouble goes well that can be fun as well, i work hard and i play hard just some times i have to take a few days off from over doing it like now 17 stiches in my hand mikes it to where i can't do my job. but hey that can be seen as a gold star as well had i not been off of work i would have not ran acrost your blog right? and it brings a safty net as well see one touch and i will be that kindest nicest man you have ever met LOL like i wouldn't be anyway, iowa_mustang_man at yahoo


jussweetlilolme 44F

2/22/2006 9:52 am

Please don't take the age difference as a slight, as I have found that men (believe it or not) mature slower than women, so the age is not as big of a deal as some would think. My comment was that with age, comes the natural ability to "think" with both heads at once...thats all!

Thanks for the messages, keep coming back

~Sweets


rm_Greyeyesky 42M

2/22/2006 11:29 am

Agreed: Intelligence is sexy, see- http://AdultFriendFinder.com "Nerd Porn"
Sweets- What kind of delivery did you have in mind? I'm all about helping out where I can.


jussweetlilolme 44F

2/22/2006 1:32 pm

Grey u r too funny "nerd porn" well call me a nerd, and sign me up for the movement...

I added a new blog section for the rest of the reply

~Sweets


iowa_mustang_man 56M
44 posts
1/19/2007 9:14 am

theres more then justthinking that comes with getting older. knowing how to please a lady becomes a very wonderful thing as well and with your eyes i know that there is a bit of wonder in just how much one can learn about pleasing a lady so if you want you can always write me at iowa_mustang_man at yahell

take care and bye for now ~~~Mike~~~


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