Is all of this worth it?  

junglejim47172 57M
25 posts
1/20/2006 2:29 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Is all of this worth it?

Are people here just to gratify themselves, and other people who won't even acknowledge you exist? I've been on here for almost a week and the only e-mail is from some woman wanting me to bye her pics. WTF!!! I'm not young and I'm not in the same shape I was at nineteen.

Are we middle aged men screwed without any lube or what? Doesn't expeirence count any more or is it I haven't joined the silver or gold members.

I don't want to spend money I won't be able to use because of surgery next week and then as soon as I can I'll have more surgery.

If your interested I was in a five vehicle accident 23 months ago on I-65 a mile north of Louisville KY. I have two disks in my neck to take out and fuse. Once I heal from that I have two in my lumbar that need the same. Since I don't know how long I'll be down I don't want to spend any more moneythan I have to.

I guess what I want to know is, how long does it take to be excepted???? I don't expect to have someone e-mail me tonight wanting to fuck. But an acknowledgement would be nice.

sassybelle21 33F  
13313 posts
1/20/2006 4:30 pm

Well there are tons of men on AdultFriendFinder and there are also a lot of fake profiles that lure guys to porn site and what not. Since there is more guys than ladies, ladies get to be really picky and can choose from millions. If you don't take the initiative and make yourself stand out, you will never get any ladies to notice you. Instead of whining, get your ass to work by checking out more profiles and contact the ladies. However, if you get no replies that means you're just not their type and they aren't interested. When that happens, move on and look further.

rm_spicyspirit 67F

2/1/2006 6:36 am

It may take a while to figure out who to contact and how--and for people to find you. One week is not very long. You might try the chat rooms. The Mature Room and the Interracial room often have some good conversations going on and you could get noticed there. You would have to be friendly and say hi.

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