Pics on profiles..  

julie4daddy34 46F
855 posts
2/12/2006 7:47 pm

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4/5/2006 12:58 pm

Pics on profiles..


I was just sitting here wondering why there arent many views or posts on my blog. A friend suggested its because I have no pic on my profile. Well, the way I figure it, I'm not gonna put a pic on here..why? First and foremost--DISCRETION. Otherwise, I simply cant see any reason in posting my boobs, or my pussy, or my ass on my profile..why? So men can judge me by my physical aspects instead of what type of personality, sense of humor or just who I am in general? No thanks. I dont feel the need to have some guy contacting me just because he thinks I have nice tits. We all know men are visual creatures, but I also know there are some out there who are genuinely interested in getting to know someone.

007sexy40plus 52F  
7603 posts
2/12/2006 10:00 pm

Let me just say it dont take pics for men to make contact. Some of them will contact for the mere fact that you are female. FOR 2 YRS I didnt post any pics and men came out of the wood work and wasnt asking to get to know my mind either. I have people rate my pics with low numbers but it still doesn't take away from who I am. I think that by posting a pic of something about you is saying you are real. It doesn't have to be boobs, ass, or pussy. your eyes and or smile may be enough. Also, some people will judge you no matter what you do.

just some thoughts from a long time member. Dont let a few numbers from some man/men discourage you from interacting here.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"


julie4daddy34 46F
599 posts
2/13/2006 4:10 am

shyvixen: I understand what your saying, and I've only been a member for a couple months, perhaps in time I'll post something but for right now I'm not comfortable.

straightten: I know what your saying as well, and I have had emails from men, but mostly they are just simply "hi, call me" (insert phone #) or "lets fuck". totally ridiculous emails that I wouldnt even consider. I'm surprised you get low ratings on your pic, I happen to think its a nice pic.

Thank ya'll for responding to my post, any ideas, suggestions, opinions, etc are all appreciated.


BADHABITS52 66M
5 posts
2/13/2006 7:56 am

I think it probably makes good sense for the reason of DISCRETION not to post an indentifying pic with your profile. Anonymity allows you to make a judgement before letting someone know who you are, or deciding to meet someone. Making a judgement to date or not based on what someone looks like is not only extremely superficial but it leaves that individual at a loss for not having met a lot of interesting people and propably spending a lot of time with narcistic folks concerned more about their perpect looks than the sensual enjoyment of a lover. The worst kiss I ever had was from a girl who was sort after by every guy in the nieghborhood (definately a picturesque beauty) we had a couple dates, she kissed like a half dead fish and that's being kind. No passion, and she liked me. She wanted to keep dating, not me. I'm new here, but I think posting a body part or two for fun and kicks reveals more of your personality than your physical assets. I have a few I am going to post maybe to interest someone in that playful side. You're right when you say men are more easily visually stimulated than women or so my experience has shown. I hope they are taken in the I way intended, by those I might like to interest. Being a male entity I do admit to having interest in someone for only sex at certain times. But in my 53 years I know for certain the best most memorable sex has been with people I knew something about, friends and lovers. There has been good spontanious, casual sex but even sitting in a bar talking long enough to someone just to catch a peek of their personality enhances the trip. Dirty talk and exhibitionism provides a glimps of the person more than just being sexually explicit to someone looking at it that way.


julie4daddy34 46F
599 posts
2/13/2006 8:23 am

Badhabit: I couldnt have said it any better myself! Thank you for your comment


virginiaguy72 45M

4/2/2006 6:53 pm

You can't close out your mind just because some men are jerks (as you refered to earlier) Not all of us out for just a quick stick, some us like a, maybe a little bit more, but not a relationship.; If that makes sense.


julie4daddy34 46F
599 posts
4/5/2006 12:58 pm

    Quoting virginiaguy72:
    You can't close out your mind just because some men are jerks (as you refered to earlier) Not all of us out for just a quick stick, some us like a, maybe a little bit more, but not a relationship.; If that makes sense.
I know not all men are the same, just as all women arent the same. Yes, your comment makes sense.


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