Figured it out..  

julie4daddy34 46F
844 posts
2/15/2006 4:37 am

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Figured it out..

I've been wondering why since I started this blog thing that I dont get very many replies or views..I think I have it figured out. It would appear to me that you pretty much have to portray yourself as a slut or be whiney about something. I guess the added photos help but ya know what? I'm not like that. I think a person who puts themself out there as an actual human being is far sexier..they say less is more..I disagree. I think a sexy pic that reveals less is more. It leaves something to the imagination. For instance: a pic of a guy wearing jeans, no shirt but the jeans unzipped is dont see his dick but it leaves something to your imagination. Very hot. And what is up with callin a stranger 'baby or honey'? Sounds stupid to me. Is that just "Southern hospitality"? I'm from the North so maybe I'm just ignorant to southern ways even tho I've been in the south a long time. One last thing...dont write in my blog if your gonna make yankee referrals..I've heard them all so save that crap for someone else.

hubbyontheloose 61M  
354 posts
2/15/2006 5:19 am

lol sounds like somebody is having a good day today hehehehe. Not going to make any North/South comments so hopefully will be safe - the only southerners I have problems with are the English! hehehehehe Oh and the saudis given where I live! Tell you what you do NOT want that lot as neighbours hahahaha. (just kidding as Mrs and I have some lovely saudi friends and Mrs is English as well lol).

I have written a blog and magazine articles on here for ages and like you get very few comments except for one or two from people whom I am close to anyway. I think they feel sorry for me and make comments to keep me happy hahaha. Funny thing is that twice today I have posted in my blog and attached pics. You kindly replied on one - the request for mmf vids - really appreciated that so thank you *S* The pic I attached was a web pic as I admitted - tho would have been very happy if was me involved lol. To the other I attached a pic of my - guess what? and hey presto an amusing comment from a delightful couple - sadly in the US tho <sigh> They are nice - wish they were closer as am definitely in that sort of mood! hehehehe Isnt it strange that when i add that cock pic I get a reply and when i dont - zip/nada/nothing/bugger all - it's a funny old world mate!

No you dont have to be a slut or whiney - tho the North/South bit is getting there lmao. Witty, funny, intelligent is much more attractive than sluttish. Sluttish lasts for just a little while while the other approach builds friendships which last for a long time and you never know where those may lead! Keep on being you! Just wanted to say thanks and also say hi from a fellow blogger even if I am a LONG way away. As I said just keep being YOU - the hell with what anybody else wants thinks or needs. We obviously share similar thoughts/ interests - feel like also sharing smiles every now and again? Am too far away to suggest anything else except chat/mail smiles sadly. And hey I am not 50 until May 10th so am still eligible for you to talk to for another few weeks!!!! wooohooo! You can dump me after that date as will be an old codger. I also promise not to call you honey or baby tho the occasional "sweetheart" may creep in being as I am Scottish hehehehehe.

keep smiling SET

rm_lockestryfe 37M
63 posts
2/15/2006 5:31 am

To be perfectly honest, it's just sheer numbers. I personally haven't seen your blog until today, cause there are so many different ones to read, it's like finding a needle in a haystack. A lot of people use this site, blogs and all. Course, now that I've found it, that doesn't mean I'm going to ignore it either. I'm a firm believer in getting to know someone before you see it all. If I wanted to see someone's parts up close and personal on the net, I'd be paying for porn sites... Just my opinion...

allaboutass2006 44M
29 posts
2/15/2006 5:39 am

I know what you mean about the whole blog thing. You might the only person that has responded to anything I have written and even thought that may be the case it feels good knowing that at least one other person may share my views or at least has something to say about them. So I say don't stop writing because I like what you have to say, I enjoy your wit and your view of the world.

julie4daddy34 46F
599 posts
2/15/2006 11:13 am

awww thanks ya'll. I honestly expected some "hate mail" to go along with this blog but ya'll have been really nice and its much appreciated.

Hubbyontheloose: hey you keep being you too..I'm not gonna change for anyone..I am who I am. Nothing wrong with you turning 50..a friend is a friend regardless of age or distance.

lockestryfe: I know nobody can possibly read everyone's blog and I'd be foolish to even think that they could. I just dont understand why some get more views than others.

allaboutass2006: I'm glad you enjoy reading my blog..I'm glad someone does LOL. I enjoy reading yours too!

rm_joshnyadeep 66M
100 posts
2/15/2006 10:32 pm

julie! i`m gonna try and get a laugh out of ya!photos are just a way of showing what the cover or the book looks like, not the person.
penis pic!yea!... lets have a intellegent conversation with me!....i own one,....spoke to it many times,....never replied yet! some guys need to learn that the brain controls that thing too! if my penis could speak ,i think it would only be one word,....duh?
honey and sugar i guess are surpose to be ice breaker here, i know where you are from,you know where i`m from so that`s three different worlds,still i`ve picked on the honey/sugar syndrome to(as you know,honey! lol) you`re use to hello there,me,it`s hi smooth.i like to have crapped my pants when i first moved back here,after being gone most of my life.a waitress dumped an half a pot of coffee in my lap,!" oh honey ! that didn`t hurt you now did it sugar" yea right! i`m sitting here getting my balls boiling in coffee!, and she didn`t even offer to put the fire out with some cream to to cool my nads! so grab your stuff if they say coffee? wise move to be ready! so just remembersugsr and honey has two meaning here,#1,i gonna insult you right off the bat by being by labeling you with a pet name. #2 is just simply,this isn`t gonna hurt much! you pick!
hugs! don

julie4daddy34 46F
599 posts
2/16/2006 4:12 am

ahhhh never cease to make me smile. Thanks I needed that! *hugz*

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