No strings  

jst4fun915 35F
420 posts
5/11/2006 12:57 am

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5/13/2006 9:28 am

No strings

I'm obviously here looking for no-strings-attached hook ups, but I prefer a friends with benefits situation. It's not a requirement, but it usually works out well for everyone involved. However, along the line shit seems to have gotten fucked up with someone who I genuinely considered a friend, (and who is also a friend of my husband's) and for the life of me I cannot figure out why. The fact that we're not hooking up? Who cares?! It's not like that was the only reason we hung out. I've got plenty of other people to choose from, and not sweating that part of it at all. When we originally started hooking up the agreement was sex would not ruin the friendship, if we wanted to stop fucking that was fine, as long as we continued our friendship. Apparently, that didn't work out so well, and my natural female instinct is to say "WTF?? Do I even get an explanation?" It's fucked up even more because my kids are asking about his kid, and I have to say "Oh, we can't see * because Mr. * isn't really our friend anymore." How do you explain the breakdown of a friendship to little kids? The whole fucking situation makes me want to scream. I actually have a pretty good idea what's going on. The first night I met him, there was another girl there, and he blew her off to hang with me. Well, I heard that he's been seeing her, and it seems that if the dude starts seeing a chick he turns into a collossal prick. I don't know, all I want is the cool, fun person I knew 2 weeks ago back, and I'm pretty sure it's not going to happen. That sucks.

mrgrimshade 45M

5/11/2006 3:52 pm

Yes kids are pure, and to ruin their world because of the way "adults" act is always rough.


elysianpleasure 48M

5/12/2006 10:15 pm

These things are never so simple... emmotions, jelousy, feelings, pride... they all seem to come to play when people become physical. Most people just can't really remove themselves from it. Good luck with your friend... hopefully he will get his head back on straight and come around.

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