Hmmm... it  

jst4fun915 35F
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3/22/2006 6:19 pm

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4/6/2006 5:01 pm

Hmmm... it

First of all, I hate the stigma an open marriage gets. Who cares what we do in the privacy of our own homes? Yet people still can't deal with anything that's not the norm, and nothing about my life *is* the norm, so why should this be any different. So, my experiences this month. First, I chose to hook up with a friend of ours, he was cool and I knew him well, we were attracted to each other, so once my hsuband and I decided to give the open marriage thing a shot I let him know I was interested. First night, sex is awkward and mediocre. Second time we hooked up, it was because I ran into him out in the bars, and he was so tore down drunk he asked me to take him home, because his friends wouldn't/couldn't. Fine, cool... let's go. We hooked up the next morning, and all he is telling me is how he wishes he could wake up next to me every morning, blah blah blah, and I have to come visit him when he moves, whatever. He caught feelings, knowing good and damn well I wasn't leaving my husband, so it pretty much ruined not only the sex we were having, but our friendship as well. Great... lesson learned. Guy number 2, meet him while out with my husband, hook up twice, he decided to call it off so he could persue his ex-fiance. Great. Meet someone on here using my husband's account, HE KNOWS I'M MARRIED, he's cool with that, whatever. We hook up, then he decides he can't handle the fact that I'm married, and calls it off. Dude wasn't the sharpest knife in the drawer, I figured that out after 10 minutes of conversation, but damn... are you retarded?? So, now I'm wondering is it me? What the fuck is going on here? Either way, I have a minimum age requirement, and broke it for my last 2 hook-ups, all that did was reaffirm my requirements. Young bloods are a waste of time, because I'm not patient enough to be a teacher, and I don't have time for you to make up your mind. *sigh*

rm_Tanis0525 50M

3/23/2006 3:45 am

I have ran into the same problem with alot of women cause so many won't hook up with a married man no matter what the situation is. Luckily I have found a couple so far and I don't want to just have one night stands would like to have someone that I can hook up with every now and then when both can work it in their schedule.

MONA_14 31F

3/23/2006 2:05 pm

you are invited to be our Friends

jst4fun915 35F

3/23/2006 2:52 pm

Feline, your comment was intriguing, and intelligent. I think you hit the mark, it's part of American society to expect monogamy, and in the career field my husband it could actually cost him his career to commit "adultry". What gets me most is the people who just can't mind their own business. I don't care what anyone else does in the privacy of their home, so why do so many care what I do? To each his own, and it often makes me wonder what skeletons are in someone's closet when they are so quick to judge or try to publicize another person's business.

TouchFondleLick 56M

3/27/2006 8:37 pm

It's to bad more people can't take what is given to them ( on a delicious platter i might add) in live and run with it instead they decide to look for more and want what they can't or shouldn't have! So sad to bad. Sure live life to its fullest and enjoy every moment like its your last but be realistic. Attitude is the Key to Life. "Don't do what you like - LIKE WHAT YOU DO!

Young boys aren't serving you well and you don't desire grandpa well, go for that happy medium 30-40yr olds. Yes? Well, I'm too old for you but I'm sure you'll find many more men to taste.

Touching you,

love2pleaseu40 43M

4/6/2006 5:43 am

That goes to show thier immaturity and the fact that they came in with unrealistic expectations. All to often people fail to listen to the other and come to an understadnig of what is to happen. In regards to open marriages society places a stigma on but I have always beleived in that life is to short and whatever you are doing should be fun afterall if you are not having fun or enjoying yourself why bother. I feel that breathing lets me know that I am alive and that laughter and good sex lets me know that I am living life.

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