jst4fun915 35F
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4/10/2006 2:34 pm

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4/13/2006 10:27 am


So, I started writing here with the intention of chronicling my experiences with my open marriage. Still, it's a little like kissing and telling, and seems so odd! It's definitely been interesting, a lot like the dating scene, you meet a bunch of idiots, a few cool people, and try and figure out your next move. For example, one of the cool guys I've met here is someone a little too "close to home", someone I would have met under different circumstances and never given a second glance to simply because of who we are, but we're having a blast together. Then again, what happens when/if it all falls apart? It's definitely a topic that keeps coming up for us. Another guy is a mystery, a challenge to me, probably part of the appeal. Of course, there are only so many days in a week, and so much time one has, so what do you do about people you'd like to meet, but haven't had the opportunity yet? I guess as a woman it's hard not to hyperfocus on one person at a time, to crave to figure out all of their sexual interests and desires. I have this theory about first time sex, it's almost always awkward, be it nerves or alcohol or whatever the reason. So, if it goes well, then it's like "Wow, I wanna do this again and again, because I think it could be REALLY great." I don't know... it's been fun, yet complicated, and difficult at times. All said, I'm having a great time, but this is definitely teaching me to go with the flow.

rm_Tanis0525 50M

4/10/2006 10:42 pm

I have only found one woman locally so far that is completely cool with me being married and having an open marriage I have met up with her on a pretty regular basis and we have had alot of fun so far. My wife on the other hand doesn't seem to have any problems finding guys, but I'm sure that is the norm for women.

jst4fun915 35F

4/11/2006 7:51 am

LOL, that's because men generally don't care who you are going home to, they just want to get some! I've had a few guys decide they couldn't handle my being married, but most men I talk to don't give a shit. On the other hand, I'm about to post my "issues" with women... I'm getting pretty tired of the drama and bullshit they pull.

GoodiesNZ 44M

4/11/2006 8:36 am

I was going to post a comment on your blog entry after this one - but given the "pissed off" mood at the top, decided that would not be a wise move.

I would like to congratulate you on your blog though... I had a quick read and it seems to me to be one of the more "interesting" ones here... I will watch avidly to see how your experiences pan out, so please keep us updated on how things go with your open relationship. It is something that I think many guys would like - even if it is something that more women would make use of I suspect.

So ... JST4FUN915 - it look slike you are our latest social experiment!

Being that I am the other side of the world... the best thing I can do is wish you and yours all the best and hope you have plenty of fun!

jst4fun915 35F

4/11/2006 10:17 am

Goodies, no need to be shy about commenting on the latest post, being pissed off isn't that big of a deal, as long as you aren't the one I'm pissed off at. Either way, life is a social experiment, and I just happen to be honest about mine. I'm interested in your experience, because Americans have a very different way of thining than many other nations, and I think a lot of us could learn something by paying attention to those outside of our little "bubble".

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