jsilknsmoove 49M
4 posts
1/23/2006 12:04 am

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10/14/2017 6:20 pm


I was very interested in this woman I met on here, but for some reason, she never took the time to understand me. We tried to hook up a couple of times, but situations come about and it didn't happen, one on my end and one on hers. I wasn't askin for her hand in marriage or anything remotely like that, I was just wanting to meet and get together and see where things go. As to my dismay, she felt red flags were coming up, because I asked about certain things, not that I wanted her to change, but asking solely outta curiosity on my part. Anyway, she felt I was trying to change her, which was totally not true, because why would I ask someone to do something, when I know I'm not gonna do the same? If you ask someone about the way they do things, is that trying to change them? I really don't know. Or, is this just an excuse for someone to get out of something they didn't want in the first place? I'm not mad or anything, I just feel u should be honest about things......I mean, who am I that u need to lie to, and who r u to think that I give a damn what u do? You are not my kid or my wife,(meaning I don't have one), but u could have been that person who could've had an extremely passionate, earth shattering experience with. Some of u may think I'm bragging about myself, but that's not true.....I'm just kicking science!! I really wanted to get up with that person, I can't emphasize that enough, but though I feel the loss now, it will come out in the end, she really was the one who missed out......Fa shizzle!!!!

VeryWetOne2006 56F
3 posts
2/17/2006 10:58 pm

I understand what you are saying. I truly think because of the way a lot of us are first "introduced" affects the tone of the friendship/relationship. Sometimes the fact that the sexual inhabitions are over is a good thing and you can move forward from there. But at other times sex is all that is desired. I think if you are looking for true love on here, the possibilities are slim....but that doesnt mean there are none. Try again and best wishes

rm_bbwandfreaky 51F
1 post
9/7/2007 2:07 am

and thus you have now trimmed your introductions to one small sentence.....i see how this transition happened,which was a turn off from the start,and possibly irritating......dont ever stop being yourself for any reason,if you get stomped on,oh well,but there are girls who appreciate this more that you know,if this is essentially a sex site and you have tons of questions it tells me that you are careful,and safe.......and had i seen this blog posted in my message,instead of "hi i live near you ,look me up"i would have realized that we run in the same lines about passion being and are and coming to the table with your best game........as she lost out you could have lost out.......go back to being you......you need to know these questions anyhow,get them out in the open,if a woman cant answer them,then she is not secure with her sexuality,her past and her safety level,or for that matter your pleasure.......be who you are,its better that who you may become as a result

rm_deszre2plz 47F

1/6/2009 11:43 pm

I agree. As someone who is just breaking out of the inhibitions an about to enjoy all things I've craved for years. I prefer honesty an questions. Before haste an blindness. Maybe she just wasn't feeling it. Maybe there was others things going on. Don't take it personally. It wasn't meant at this time. Who knows what the future holds?

swtnjcy69 52F  
2 posts
10/14/2017 4:11 pm

Too much thought! One of the agreements, "take nothing personal",' a person reflects/ projects their own stuff onto others. I can understand being taken aback however I try to remind myself that just because I would not behave in a certain manner doesn't preclude me from being subject to another's poor reflection of themselves. and there is A LOT of that going on around here in the name of fun

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