Finding what you want...  

jshvfn 63F
8 posts
4/5/2005 8:19 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Finding what you want...

Has anyone actually found who and what they are looking for on this website? I have found alot of nice guys looking for "no strings" sex. Geez, isn't there anything else on this website?

PussyEater7421 63M
51 posts
4/6/2005 3:00 am

It's true that most of the guys on this site are here trying to "score", while most of the women here are hoping to lure a guy into a "relationship" through a sexy picture or profile. Be patient. There are us nice guys here that want both a relationship and a dynamic sex life with the right woman. Screen your emails carefully and respond only to those that interest you.

keithcancook 61M
18138 posts
4/6/2005 5:43 pm

I got here through a combination of lonliness, horniness, and boredom. (not necessarily in that order). At first my goal was to get laid soon and not get involved. But, as many men have discovered before me, it is not so easy.

Then, as you have done, I found blogging. At least here I can express myself and interact with others...both genders included. Not what I had intended at first.

As for the women? Well, perhaps through blogging and time one will find me rather than me pestering every profile in my area. Besides, I am still new so I feel I must experiment with this site for a bit now.

tbandit5461 58M
1 post
4/29/2005 7:22 am

I myself am trying to find a personal relationship with a person with the same sex drive. But i find that most of the ad's are fake or couples that only are seeking girls,I don't want to meet in a bar so I'll keep trying.

COSFunGuy 66M
33 posts
7/23/2005 9:49 pm

I am thinking some of the dissonance between the idea of "just hooking up" and some kind of relationship may just be people looking for something to do while they look for the right person. Frankly, being able to post my sexual desires and interests up front has actually freed me up to focus on the more important things in the world between men and women. I guess I can illustrate that by saying... when in the straight world is it the right time to ask if your partner is bi or if she would be interested in various forms of group sex? Third date?..... ok.. so now this is one positive of this site .. that part is out of the way up front. Frankly I do not get all in a froth about getting naked with anyone that I have contacted here, and am more interested in if they make me smile or if I can enjoy a dinner with them.

So, the idea of "have you found what you are looking for"? is answered by an emphatic no at this point, what I am positive is, that I am at least FINALLY looking in the right place. I have never been so relaxed about not being attached to anyone at this time because I know that the person I need to be with is actually IN this pile of screen names and descriptions. Did anyone believe it would be THAT easy to find someone THAT special to them here or anywhere that it would not require you to sort past the ones that make you go EWWWWWWWWWWWW?.... So while I am waiting to find someone extremely special here... I am making friends in the lifestyle by being a friend when life calls for it. Call my experience here extremely positive but incomplete. Better times are coming...

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